kevduf: What I am giving is more than compassion, it's truth. He said it's happened to him before. Why has it happened time and time again? Because he lets it happen. He lets women take over his heart, and they uses it to their advantage. He needs to toughen up, and that's better advice than any type of compassion!
I'm not being mean, I just want people to not get taken advantage of.
Again, you have a point...
But he may not see it like that...
He is hurting and whilst you believe you are being compassionate, not all will see it like that.
I do.
But I have hurt, I nearly destroyed myself over an affair, it changed my world, my life, how I dealt with life...
I look back now and see that I learnt from it... Saw where I went wrong.
But I do like your style, I must admit.
Pragmatism, there is alot to be said for it.
I am pragmatic, I got slammed here for it once.