jamminjamie74: so i was so in love with this girl i asked her to marry me and everything, she ment the world to me. i would have given her the moon if i could. so what does she do to show me she loves me??? brings an ex boyfriend into MY house and cheats on me with him in MY bed, while i am out of town working my a$$ to try and provide for her. God knows how long this has been going on. i walk in the door to suprise her with roses and busted my a$$ to get home early because i didnt want to spend another night away from her, and this is what i get to come home too. Why must i get screwed (literally) over like this. Someone please tell me WHY??? I am DONE!! i refuse to go through this again!!
Thanks for listening just had to vent thats all. I am sure it will pass sooner or later!
Yes, have a vent if you feel the need and it helps... at least a little?!
We only have one side of the story, of course, but going just on what you have said....
No... you don't have "Cheat on Me" written across your forehead. We all have different codes of conduct and standards of what we believe is acceptable treatment of, and behaviour towards, others, They may not correlate with yours. That said, treating someone so shoddily is a CHOICE!!! Whatever excuse we may want to give to it, its still..... CHOICE!! She clearly felt that it was acceptable to treat you in this fashion and denotes no respect whatsoever.
Someone that does that should be history, pure and simple. Its hard, I know, but whatever happens, you ultimately need to maintain your self-respect and, above all.... your dignity. I am sure you are worthy of better.....
Perhaps re-evaluate your choice of woman??
GOOD LUCK!!