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kissmedeeply Petitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada
MysticErf: aka tough love

I'm all about gender equality, women have the same potential to be liars, manipulative, promiscuous, and all around evil as men.

But it also goes the other way, there's the same chance that you might find a wonderful woman out there.

Just keep your eyes open for someone that could be what you want, and never settle for anything less... don't take any crap from any woman!


i know i was only teasing with kev..

he knows thathandshake
voyager007 Khober Saudi Arabia
jamminjamie74: so i was so in love with this girl i asked her to marry me and everything, she ment the world to me. i would have given her the moon if i could. so what does she do to show me she loves me??? brings an ex boyfriend into MY house and cheats on me with him in MY bed, while i am out of town working my a$$ to try and provide for her. God knows how long this has been going on. i walk in the door to suprise her with roses and busted my a$$ to get home early because i didnt want to spend another night away from her, and this is what i get to come home too. Why must i get screwed (literally) over like this. Someone please tell me WHY??? I am DONE!! i refuse to go through this again!!

Thanks for listening just had to vent thats all. I am sure it will pass sooner or later!



this is from me to you brother:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oLC73DB7jE8

cheers up

peace
kevduf Columbia, Missouri USA
kissmedeeply: i know i was only teasing with kev..

he knows that

I do?!??!


tongue



kissmedeeply Petitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada
kevduf: I do?!??!
tongue hug



lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
kevduf: Oh, who could YOU be referring to?



Guess! His name starts with an 'x'. laugh



lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
Sommerauer71: Bloody hell, I was about to post that...



You know what they say about great minds.....
kevduf Columbia, Missouri USA
lusciousmile: Guess! His name starts with an 'x'.


ok, now I really don't know!!!laugh
kevduf: ok, now I really don't know!!!


Yeah, ex REBEL
G'nite all.hug



kissmedeeply Petitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada
CjTenorSax: G'nite all.
hug



Firey100 Birmingham, West Midlands, England UK
jamminjamie74: so i was so in love with this girl i asked her to marry me and everything, she ment the world to me. i would have given her the moon if i could. so what does she do to show me she loves me??? brings an ex boyfriend into MY house and cheats on me with him in MY bed, while i am out of town working my a$$ to try and provide for her. God knows how long this has been going on. i walk in the door to suprise her with roses and busted my a$$ to get home early because i didnt want to spend another night away from her, and this is what i get to come home too. Why must i get screwed (literally) over like this. Someone please tell me WHY??? I am DONE!! i refuse to go through this again!!

Thanks for listening just had to vent thats all. I am sure it will pass sooner or later!
I can relate to you and your pain my sweet, it will pass I promise you that! Do try again it could work for you. My X Husband screwed me over for an affair with my older sister the basket! I was the last to know and like you did everything possible for him so you see my sweet it happens its the life and the quality of the people. You deserve a lot better and are well rid. Good luck in the future. Regards and Merry Christmas.
sxc666 Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
In response to: so i was so in love with this girl i asked her to marry me and everything, she ment the world to me. i would have given her the moon if i could. so what does she do to show me she loves me??? brings an ex boyfriend into MY house and cheats on me with him in MY bed, while i am out of town working my a$$ to try and provide for her. God knows how long this has been going on. i walk in the door to suprise her with roses and busted my a$$ to get home early because i didnt want to spend another night away from her, and this is what i get to come home too. Why must i get screwed (literally) over like this. Someone please tell me WHY??? I am DONE!! i refuse to go through this again!!

Thanks for listening just had to vent thats all. I am sure it will pass sooner or later!
Thank your lucky stars she fucked her ex, instead of fucking you over..thumbs up Thank your lucky stars you seen what she is made of before you walked down the aisle. hug



TroyBoy Sunderland, Maryland USA
Man, that is fu&%$# up......where was she from? Did you bring her in the states? I feel for ya man.....hats off you're taking it better than I probably would.....hang in there, I'm sure the new year will bring something far better.....when one door closes, other windows open.....all the best.....
gordy22222 whitehorse, Yukon Territory Canada
get rid of the damn skank wish i was smarter 30 yrs ago
Aries01 Kent, Kent, England UK
jamminjamie74: so i was so in love with this girl i asked her to marry me and everything, she ment the world to me. i would have given her the moon if i could. so what does she do to show me she loves me??? brings an ex boyfriend into MY house and cheats on me with him in MY bed, while i am out of town working my a$$ to try and provide for her. God knows how long this has been going on. i walk in the door to suprise her with roses and busted my a$$ to get home early because i didnt want to spend another night away from her, and this is what i get to come home too. Why must i get screwed (literally) over like this. Someone please tell me WHY??? I am DONE!! i refuse to go through this again!!

Thanks for listening just had to vent thats all. I am sure it will pass sooner or later!


Don't give up, I do believe that she will eventually get the future she deserves.. as will you... you will find ur nice girl that will love and appreciate you..and you will get the life and happiness you deserve

hug



FuninCali Fairfield, California USA
I am appauled that someone did that to you. Well it seems that a lot of people have to keep their ex's all in their lives as "little best friends" these days and 3 guys in their 40's that I met here were keeping their Ex's all in their lives, even the ones where they never had children! So I was able to find this out before I got intimately involved. It was zero tolerance for me as I saw the writing on the wall. But, I think there might be something in your personality that tells young girls that you are too easy, too nice, and so they take advantage. You weren't perfect for those girls and they were not honest with you in the relationship and the grass was greener with sex with someone else, and that is not your fault. They should value you for overall qualities, but make sure they are satisfied with you in bed and all is mutual before you get too deep! good sex really matters big in a relationship and must be happening weekly to cultivate it.//Mary hug
loverboy690 East Jordan, Michigan USA
FuninCali: I am appauled that someone did that to you. Well it seems that a lot of people have to keep their ex's all in their lives as "little best friends" these days and 3 guys in their 40's that I met here were keeping their Ex's all in their lives, even the ones where they never had children! So I was able to find this out before I got intimately involved. It was zero tolerance for me as I saw the writing on the wall. But, I think there might be something in your personality that tells young girls that you are too easy, too nice, and so they take advantage. You weren't perfect for those girls and they were not honest with you in the relationship and the grass was greener with sex with someone else, and that is not your fault. They should value you for overall qualities, but make sure they are satisfied with you in bed and all is mutual before you get too deep! good sex really matters big in a relationship and must be happening weekly to cultivate it.//Mary

oh no sweet heart all my ex's are dead and gone.The pain they put me through.None of them talk anymore.well with me anyways and I don't know if I would talk back



FuninCali Fairfield, California USA
If she was 21 as your profile prefers much younger girls, then I can see why that happens!! OMG at 21 we want to explore and play the field and experience lots of diff men and not ready to settle down at all! Someone your own age would prob not do that and likely be more committed, but everyone cheats these days as the norm. Happens to the best of us and we just have to move on and hope to find someone committed to the end! Try an older woman I would say.
loverboy690 East Jordan, Michigan USA
FuninCali: If she was 21 as your profile prefers much younger girls, then I can see why that happens!! OMG at 21 we want to explore and play the field and experience lots of diff men and not ready to settle down at all! Someone your own age would prob not do that and likely be more committed, but everyone cheats these days as the norm. Happens to the best of us and we just have to move on and hope to find someone committed to the end! Try an older woman I would say.

I agree but the ting is there is all different types of people out there.And as far as my past it was all before i was 18.And you have to give me creadit on this one but people muture at different ages.



roseofsharon Buggered if I know where...?!!, Hampshire, England UK
jamminjamie74: so i was so in love with this girl i asked her to marry me and everything, she ment the world to me. i would have given her the moon if i could. so what does she do to show me she loves me??? brings an ex boyfriend into MY house and cheats on me with him in MY bed, while i am out of town working my a$$ to try and provide for her. God knows how long this has been going on. i walk in the door to suprise her with roses and busted my a$$ to get home early because i didnt want to spend another night away from her, and this is what i get to come home too. Why must i get screwed (literally) over like this. Someone please tell me WHY??? I am DONE!! i refuse to go through this again!!

Thanks for listening just had to vent thats all. I am sure it will pass sooner or later!


Yes, have a vent if you feel the need and it helps... at least a little?!

We only have one side of the story, of course, but going just on what you have said....

No... you don't have "Cheat on Me" written across your forehead. We all have different codes of conduct and standards of what we believe is acceptable treatment of, and behaviour towards, others, They may not correlate with yours. That said, treating someone so shoddily is a CHOICE!!! Whatever excuse we may want to give to it, its still..... CHOICE!! She clearly felt that it was acceptable to treat you in this fashion and denotes no respect whatsoever.

Someone that does that should be history, pure and simple. Its hard, I know, but whatever happens, you ultimately need to maintain your self-respect and, above all.... your dignity. I am sure you are worthy of better.....

Perhaps re-evaluate your choice of woman?? dunno

GOOD LUCK!! handshake




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