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Knowing my personality, I'd probably cross my arms, tap my foot, & say, "Are we having fun yet??!?!"

smack the shit out of both of them. then never talk to her again.

Depending on who they were in bed with . . . shot him w/ a taser. I love it when they squirm.

I would have a few choice words for the pair of them...as I was packing my bags to walk out the door for good...

Didn't we just do this a couple of days ago?

I think "turn and leave" was the most popular option, and I'd choose that one as well.

Ah must have missed that thread, okay now what if you discover that the person they are cheating on you with is of the same sex does?

I'd

that make it worse? Or is cheating just cheating either way?

Turn and RUN out of the room! Seriously, I think that would be worse...though I'm not sure. In a way it would make clear that it wasn't anything you did wrong, which might be a relief; on the other hand, it would emphasize how the other party lied to you on a deep level.

Take a picture with the camera.

Moments like that are good to fantasize about, but in reality no one wants them.
I wonder who would be more likely to file for divorce... Men or women?

I would rub my forehead, ask them to please go to his house, do some pacing around for a minute, turn on some tunes, take some deep breathes and just remind myself, been there done that (in one form or another) -


it's really no big deal, as, the big surprise in life is always when something goes amazingly well and continues !!!

I would throw them both out of the house, then throw their clothes out the door after them. Next, I would strip the bed and burn the sheets and any bathroom linens they may have used. Then I would get busy and scour the bathroom with bleach, disinfect the entire house, have a locksmith come change all the locks, and finally I would have the local thrift shop come and pick up all my ex-partner's belongings. If she wants them back she can go buy them back from the thrift store. I would erase the cheater out of my life as much as can be done, never contact her or receive contact from her again and move on with my life as if she never existed in the first place. Cheating is the ultimate "deal-breaker." Nothing spells out "it's over and I totally disrespect you as a partner and a human being" quite like your partner choosing to be with someone else and in your own home/bed ~ ugh!! Good riddance

I can answer this from experience.

Grab my shotgun out of my gun safe while the bastard was running trying to put his clothes on. He ran out of the house half naked. He was a neighbor so he ran home.

Then I turned and looked at my wife as he hit the door running and said, "Aren't you going to follow him?"

she said, "No she can explain."

I said, "I suggest you get your things and get out. Don't ever come back."

She packed up a suit case while I called the locksmith.

For a moment I thought your ex was with a woman...but I'm assuming you meant: "No, I can explain."

Have there ever been more lame words under those circumstances?

I wouldn't say a word but turn around and walk out.

i know for a fact it wouldnt happen..

but i always keep my axe and shovel near by

Didn't we just answer this....like two days ago??