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kissmedeeply Petitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada
pretzelman: Didn't we just answer this....like two days ago??


Hun they forget after an hour..what was posteddoh
Ambrose2007 Badger, South Dakota USA
pretzelman: Didn't we just answer this....like two days ago??


True, but I don't remember what I said...confused wave



Heiress86 Greenlefe, Florida USA
call the police and tell them to hurry because there's gonna be a homicide!



pretzelman Las Vegas, Nevada USA
***i know for a fact it wouldnt happen..


Sorry, dear one!! While I am sure you are very happy, you don't KNOW!! I think everyone who found a cheating spouse, KNEW, that wouldn't happen to them.

Please don't take this personally, as I ammnot pointing a finger at anyone. it is just a fact of life.

You have already read my tirade of why everyone should use condoms!!




kissmedeeply Petitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada
but i know eric and i

and we both cant stand or accept cheating..

that i will/have to disagree..

nothing will/make/can make me cheat ever

and he feels the same way...



kissmedeeply Petitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada
but ship i do know him and myself..

that i know 100%...

hug



pretzelman Las Vegas, Nevada USA
pebblesl33 Rapid City, South Dakota USA
In response to: What's the first thing you'd do once you came in and saw them together?

I would grab my cell, take a pic, turn around, walk out, and go straight to a divorce attorney.



kissmedeeply Petitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada
I am sorry ship..

but i bet my life on that..

Nothing in this world would ever make me cheat/or even
think about it..

I know you dont believe it but i do..

and same goes for Eric..

He has never cheated but been cheated on..so he know how that feelshug
Ambrose2007 Badger, South Dakota USA
kissmedeeply: but i know eric and i

and we both cant stand or accept cheating..

that i will/have to disagree..

nothing will/make/can make me cheat ever

and he feels the same way...


There really do exist some people (or "somechicks" laugh)who never would cheat. Then there are those - probably a lot more - who might cheat, but only under extreme circumstances. Followed by those who would without any tremendous provocation.

I believe Joanne is one of the first group (along with Somechick, gg, and a few others here, including Mark and some guys).
thumbs up



kissmedeeply Petitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada
Ambrose2007: There really do exist some people (or "somechicks" )who never would cheat. Then there are those - probably a lot more - who might cheat, but only under extreme circumstances. Followed by those who would without any tremendous provocation.

I believe Joanne is one of the first group (along with Somechick, gg, and a few others here, including Mark and some guys).


Thank you but its true..

I have never ever cheated..nor thought about it..

and i know for a fact that Eric hasnt either..

many has told me that..hug
rizlared ., Shanghai China
pretzelman: ***i know for a fact it wouldnt happen..Sorry, dear one!! While I am sure you are very happy, you don't KNOW!! I think everyone who found a cheating spouse, KNEW, that wouldn't happen to them.

Please don't take this personally, as I ammnot pointing a finger at anyone. it is just a fact of life.

You have already read my tirade of why everyone should use condoms!!


Your not wrong there Ship

If fact I would go as far as to say (almost outloud) your right

Both my ex wives cheated, both swore it was something that they could never even think about let alone do.

In any relationship you have to realise that anything can happen, and just be able to deal with it when it occurs.



kissmedeeply Petitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada
rizlared: Your not wrong there Ship

If fact I would go as far as to say (almost outloud) your right

Both my ex wives cheated, both swore it was something that they could never even think about let alone do.

In any relationship you have to realise that anything can happen, and just be able to deal with it when it occurs.


nope your wrong..

I know i wont cheat..

Just becos your ex's cheated on you dont mean everyone will..

I know me..you dont...

Does that mean you have cheated also???dunno
Joktan Menomonee Falls, Wisconsin USA
I would go right straight to this CS forum and bitch until the pain was all gone and I was feeling better....grin
Was this my house or her house we live in when it happens?confused
Joktan Menomonee Falls, Wisconsin USA
kissmedeeply: Hun they forget after an hour..what was posted

Wait!... what is the title of this thread?doh



kissmedeeply Petitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada
Joktan: Wait!... what is the title of this thread?
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing dunno confused



lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
Joktan: I would go right straight to this CS forum and bitch until the pain was all gone and I was feeling better....
Was this my house or her house we live in when it happens?



Your house! beer

rizlared ., Shanghai China
kissmedeeply: nope your wrong..

I know i wont cheat..

Just becos your ex's cheated on you dont mean everyone will..

I know me..you dont...

Does that mean you have cheated also???


No I have never cheated in nearly 30 years of being in relationships, but,if you had asked both my ex's the question after being married for 3 years they would have replied with the same answer as you and with the same conviction.

Life is never perfect.
sassy49senior Itty Bitty, Nebraska USA

This does say LOVER not Spouse. In that case if it's my
house I would throw the bitche's clothes at her and tell
her get the Hell out of my house, but don't go too far,
he will be right behind you shortly. If his house, I would
pack and be gone and be thankful I found out before we
said the I DO'S.
very mad




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