What would you do if one day you came home unexpectedly and found your lover in bed with someone.

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Capone1 kuwait Kuwait
be careful then if you are planning to screw someone else girl as not every MAN will let it go
Claayer Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
tainogirl: What's the first thing you'd do once you came in and saw them together?


I would turn around.. leave the house.. give them time to finish what they were doing..or dress or whatever..
Come back later.. get my stuff (or his depending on the living arrangements).. leave.. or kick him out the door..

and never speak to him again.

::dusts hands::


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In response to: What's the first thing you'd do once you came in and saw them together?


as I posted on the other thread, Your Reaction, about this:

Sommerauer71: I would wake him up, tell her to put the kettle on and we would all have a nice cup of tea..

sadegh1979: I'd rather pour the water in that kettle on his d**k.
Come on, you are so lenient!




Actually, this is not lenient. My Wise Father, Said the hardest punishment is the embarrassment from having to face the one that was betrayed.

I agree with Sommer, Pretzleman, Somechick and others in this thread. The non violent reactions are best.

And the issue WOULD have to be discussed, so as Sommer said, Make tea and discuss the issue then, as you look in their eyes.

I was taught if you Love someone very much, you want him/her to be happy.

I did let my Husband go bc I Loved him and wanted him to be happy. He did not want to remain married to me but go with her. So, I let him go after I had asked him, if he would not try and salvage the Love we had and he said no.

Why force someone to stay with you? That would only make both of you miserable-that is no way to be. Far better to demonstrate True Love and Love them enough to let them go in peace and love.

In further reference to some of your posts, I would rather have a man that is not considered a real man, like Pretzelman, by your country's standards than one that would do violence.
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cristina Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands
mike69spain: I see they removed it... so, why not write it again, but less "colourful" ?


Buhahaharolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
I wish I had caught my ex in bed with the girl he had his little tryst with. I think I can get a solid 15 mins of video coverage on my camera. I wonder if the lighting would have been enough? Oh well, nothing like opening all the shades and blinds. Oh the neighbors? Well, I'm sure they would forget it in time... that is if the posters all over their local parking facilities and shopping areas ever blew off... oh & then there's all the one's around her apartment complex. Darn just so many to keep track of.
I supposed the video coverage would go around the net pretty quickly, too.

Gee... they'd both be such superstars.



bushbun Minneapolis, Minnesota USA
First of all, to have even sligthest thought on things like this makes me sort of uncomfortable in a sense that my personal standards would have to lower enormously in order to dedicate single second to such low class post....

But hey, this are forums where everybody can post/reply, and is therefore required for each individual to use own judgements before reading/seeing, or even answering...

Internet allows us somewhat more to preselect or filtrate vs. TV etc.

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cristina Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands
First of all, to have even sligthest thought on things like this makes me sort of uncomfortable in a sense that my personal standards would have to lower enormously in order to dedicate single second to such low class post....

But hey, this are forums where everybody can post/reply, and is therefore required for each individual to use own judgements before reading/seeing, or even answering...

Internet allows us somewhat more to preselect or filtrate vs. TV etc.[/quote

I never knew you were literally insanewave
gangel Hampshire, England, Plovdiv Bulgaria
cristina: First of all, to have even sligthest thought on things like this makes me sort of uncomfortable in a sense that my personal standards would have to lower enormously in order to dedicate single second to such low class post....

But hey, this are forums where everybody can post/reply, and is therefore required for each individual to use own judgements before reading/seeing, or even answering...

Internet allows us somewhat more to preselect or filtrate vs. TV etc.[/quote

I never knew you were literally insane


You do like this word, don't you?laugh
cristina Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands
gangel: You do like this word, don't you?


insanity? not really sisteddybear



bushbun Minneapolis, Minnesota USA
cristina: insanity? not really sis











From what I understand, healthcare system in Niederland isn't that bad Cristina...laugh
gangel Hampshire, England, Plovdiv Bulgaria
cristina: insanity? not really sis



Nooo,meant literallykiss
cristina Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands
bushbun: From what I understand, healthcare system in Niederland isn't that bad Cristina...


You seem to like me don't you? Seriously, what's so special about me?
cristina Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands
gangel Hampshire, England, Plovdiv Bulgaria
cristina: You seem to like me don't you? Seriously, what's so special about me?



Your sincerity.
cristina Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands



buzzy biddeford, Maine USA
I told him if he wanted to live through the night he should use the door he came in. She i told to stay at friends house. I'll be gone in morning. and i was, forever



princess49503 grand rapids, Michigan USA
tainogirl: What's the first thing you'd do once you came in and saw them together?



give her the beating of her life and saws-all his golf clubs and PS3.




hey!! what can I say! some things are worth flying off the handle for. dunno
bluebabsie cambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK
devil rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing



well instead of chopping his balls off....



id join them...that would shock them

hehehe....then id chop em off !!! laugh babs xgrin



kcjane Peachgrove, Georgia USA
WALK THE F___ OUT!!!!! no problem getting rid of a bad seed while you can
DoznEggs Any town, New Jersey USA
tainogirl: that make it worse? Or is cheating just cheating either way?


Cheating is Cheating and there is only one solution: see below.

A relationship is not like a baseball game. You don't get three strikes.

It's not like a boxing match, you don't get a 10 count.

You cheat, you're out.




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