jvaski: I agree with you if they're not flirting with others, and do actually state they're not available...............
Then there's alot of others who constantly tell all of us that they're really not looking seriously - just wanna have pen-pals.
At what point do we change the site to CS social -club ?
( just a suggested name )
I actually don't see the problem with flirting either, so long as it's with people who know that they're taken and the flirting is just a part of the friendship...and both partners agree that it's OK. Same with real life on that.
And it's a free site...success stories draw others, and help them stay and have hope. I'm sorry that you, and a handful of others, have a problem with that...however, you're free to feel however you want, and stay or leave as you want. I would stay because I have friends here, and if it's someone I've met here, our success would also inspire others. It's nice to see that there are happy couples out there, and I'd like to be one of them.