pretzelman: My point being, I think is; isn't it better to be seen as perfect in someone else's eyes rather than your own!!
I'm talking in general...not to any one person!!
None of us are perfect, and I wouldn't want to appear "perfect" in someone else's eyes...but I'd take having them see me as perfect enough for them, just the way I am, human flaws in tact. All I ever ask is to be loved for me, not someone's erroneous perception of me. For another to see you as you really are, and love you just the way you really are...that's the greatest gift that they can give.

Starlin, my friend, you're a gift. Don't sell yourself short.
Happy Holidays.