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Listen to "Let Her Cry" by Hootie and the Blowfish...cry it out, or talk it out, all you need to here, dear. That's part of what we're here for, isn't it? It's definitely what I'm here for, g/f.

You can do it as often as you need to to relieve your pain, clean it out of your system. Sometimes we have too.

I When I got done with you...could couldn't walk at all for a month!!

Hey that's what I do only I have called it self deprecatory humor after all why should we feel good about ourselves just to let someone else down or ourselves again and again, and when ours or someones else's self esteem and insecurity issues crash a budding relationship hey it was what we expected.

Thank you sweetie. You have a heart of gold, I've seen it over and over. Unfortunately Dru has heard this rant from me over and over and it's time for me to pull up my socks and fix my ponytail and walk on. There are people on here with some very serious things going on in their lives and I need to remember that.

you know...whenever you aren't Bashing OBama(kidding) you are a very nice guy, I hope we can meet sometime for a beer or a cup of non-Starbucks coffee.

I honor your devotion to your mom! And I think you would be an ideal significant other to a really sweet woan from CS




Right now...I am on sooooo many pain pills, my typing is slow and takes konger ti proof read than sctually write....lol


your friend....Star;lin

This is in reference to HJ,s post!

And Dru never minds it, g/f. Bend my ear over it all you want. "Ranting at" is what friends are for, LA.

I thought it was me till you got to the guy part. Pain pills!!

Call me Lala, unless you missed that last night.

Yep...missed that one. And you might regret that, Lala!

I have some I will share with you(LOL) Let's get together
and see who has the prettiest meds. Take care you
mean ornery old man.

Dru understands and is very supportive so no worries there.
But sometimes we find our reasons for pulling our selves up and moving forward. I know you can do that. I also use it, that there are worse out there than myself, and use it as a strength to go forward.
Even if I had been at the worst imaginable I think I would find strength somewheres to move foreward. You are doing well cause you see others pain. That is what is strength seeing pain in others despite our own. You will make it that I do know.

actually...this didn't sddress the issues I was talking about. All i got from this post is that you are well to do and you worked hard for it. You dated an older person and was dumped.

You lost me ther!! Did I miss something?? I am not being saervastic....I am on a lot of po killersa right now.

But thanks for the post


Starlin

Shippy...
I examine myself daily, to expose any fault in myself which is not Christ like.
Perhaps I do not quite "fit in" here, as I am much different than most of you. I choose to live my life not of the world, though being in the world.
I come here to visit and encourage those who are hurting and lonely. I listen to the Spirit as he directs me with words to say, emails, flowers and ecards to send that just may make a difference in someone's life. It is my intent to be a friend to all.
My profile states I am here for the forums, yet I have always had a hope of meeting someone here. Because of the depth to which I have chosen to take my spirituality, I can not date the many men who have inquired of me. I do not think I am better than anyone else, that is not the reason. I want a man who is at the same place spiritually.
This leaves me to have the same rejected ugly duckling feelings I have had all of my life... nobody wants me!!! It does play on my emotions at times... why do I always have to be alone???? I hurt just like everyone else does... and sometimes I will have a few drinks just to kill the pain of lonliness from a broken heart. Pinch me, yes, I am real!!!
I know what it's like to love and have that love rejected. I remember when I used to Fear. The broken bones, black eyes, and bruises my body has taken and fought to heal, held me in their bondage for many years.
It was only when I met Jesus, that I finally found the true love I had waited for all of my life! He became my husband. He took away all the pain and hurt and filled me with a love I could not comprehend. It was mind boggling! Pure! I found out that I had value, worth!
He values each of us!!! I have gone thru many many changes since meeting Him 20 years ago. Ten years ago, He told me that He was preparing a man for me. He told me about 3 years ago, that I would meet him online. Thanks to CS, even one who is as difficult as myself, to match up with another much like me... I believe the man God has been preparing for me, has come into my life!!!! Can you believe it??? I wouldn't believe it myself, except that God promised me that there was such a man!!!
So... Shippy... Never give up!!! There is someone for each and every one of us, no matter how difficult we may seem to be to ourselves. There are no hopeless cases!

Just in case you are wondering...
The man He brought into my life...
Is none other than...

Abram



I Truely Love You ALL!!!
HL

Congratulations to you and Abram....best of luck to you both.


But we are talking about apples and oranges here. You are attractive, not hiurting financially and are very intelligent.

When you walk in front of a mirror you see Lady Diana. When I walk in front of a mirror, I see Whimpie begging for a hamburger for which I will gladly pay you on Tuesday.


Whenever I try to talk to god...he tells me his appointments are booked up for the next 30 years

Yes, Dru does understand and is supportive...so weird to see myself being talked about like that... Love ya, g/f. Sorry...just seeing the humor here.

Anyway, I'm with you. This is how I get myself out of the doldrums, too. I see others who are hurting, or who have more hardship than me, and it's a reminder to be grateful for what I do have, and to keep moving forward with life, and hope for another day. And I do my best to give that to others, too.

Lala, I know you'll get over it and move on. I just don't ever want you to feel bad for bending my ear over it. I love you.

I'm sorry because I want to be serious and deep here but I keep reading Lala and I can't stop laughing to type....I'm starting to cry. But not like b4, in a good way.

Lady Di?? Not even!!!

Ship, I do not even have a JOB!!!

Intelligent?? Don't sell yourself short!!!
You are quite the smarty!!!

Hey, I would cook you all the FREE Hamburgers you wanted
If it would make you SMILE And bring YOU JOY!!!


Thanks for the Congrats!!!

I DO Love Abram soooooo much!!

Told you you'd regret telling me to call you that, Lala!