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wixomwizard: You're right....at least I got the first three letters of his last name right.

druidess6308: Please tell me you didn't really do that!

Sparky55: Sometimes I fear I may end up in a similar situation a few years down the road. I've ben fortunate in life thus far but my job and the travel that goes with it makes it really difficult to find a woman who would put up with it. And it wouldn't be fair to ask. I've thought about trying to do something else but then I would be changing who I am and I like the work I do and the person I am. It's just a real pain in the ass in the relationship department as I hate to start something I know I can't follow through on. Who knows what life will bring? The clocks ticking on all of us.

But you know what ship? You're a good guy and as much of a pain in the butt you can be at times, good guys, regardless of age, stomach size, lack of wealth or health problems are not easy to come by.

pretzelman: I haven't been ognoring the responses, folks. truth is, I have been fading in and out due to heavy medication...LOL Ant that's the truth. But the pain is gone and I am back to my normal(?) self. Apologies for not responding individually!! I can barely account for the last two days

pretzelman: I haven't been ognoring the responses, folks. truth is, I have been fading in and out due to heavy medication...LOL Ant that's the truth. But the pain is gone and I am back to my normal(?) self. Apologies for not responding individually!! I can barely account for the last two days

pretzelman: I haven't been ognoring the responses, folks. truth is, I have been fading in and out due to heavy medication...LOL Ant that's the truth. But the pain is gone and I am back to my normal(?) self. Apologies for not responding individually!! I can barely account for the last two days

pretzelman: Some have referred to my thread as being "down on yourself" That is really not true. I am just being honest with myself.

I read sooooo many profiles where everyone sees themselves as one miracle shy of being Jesus, the Christ! They see themselves as perfect in every way.

I would rather see myself as a woman would see a potential mate.

I think self-examination might be appropriate for quite a few on CS.

Just a thought!!

Have a great holiday...no matter which one you celebrate

pretzelman: Some have referred to my thread as being "down on yourself" That is really not true. I am just being honest with myself.

I read sooooo many profiles where everyone sees themselves as one miracle shy of being Jesus, the Christ! They see themselves as perfect in every way.

I would rather see myself as a woman would see a potential mate.

I think self-examination might be appropriate for quite a few on CS.

Just a thought!!

Have a great holiday...no matter which one you celebrate

pretzelman: I haven't been ognoring the responses, folks. truth is, I have been fading in and out due to heavy medication...LOL Ant that's the truth. But the pain is gone and I am back to my normal(?) self. Apologies for not responding individually!! I can barely account for the last two days

vinny1967: Yeah I agree we could all do with a bit of introspection Ship, but look at the responses. Just because you see something in yourself doesnt mean its true. We can be overly critical of ourselves at times, and some people need to learn to love themseves more.

Anyway Happy hols back at you and glad to hear your back to your normal grumpy self

Dawn7z: Good authentic way to put it Vinny most of my life I have spent berating myself for this thing or the other and any infraction would make me feel guilty so although being real with ourselves and looking in that "soul mirror" once in a while is a good thing sometimes it just brings your further down.
Humility on the other hand gives us a balanced view that we are not perfect but works in progress.

pretzelman: Some have referred to my thread as being "down on yourself" That is really not true. I am just being honest with myself.

I read sooooo many profiles where everyone sees themselves as one miracle shy of being Jesus, the Christ! They see themselves as perfect in every way.

I would rather see myself as a woman would see a potential mate.

I think self-examination might be appropriate for quite a few on CS.

Just a thought!!

Have a great holiday...no matter which one you celebrate

vinny1967: Hi Dawn You well honey ?

Yeah I believe in being critical of myself but one has to learn to like oneself for who we are as well.

Lets be honest, we are not goin to change drastically now....

Good to see you Dawn.

dcj22: I think I'll check my profile. Make sure I'm not trying to be Jesus.

Dawn7z: I haven't been honest this far so why start now lol. I have a touch of something and have to work but it's fine.