Of my situation tainogirl, rebuilding my ability to trust, also meant being able to not hold on so tightly that you smothered your partner. That took some time, and myself in various relationships, where trust was not of importance, just the passions, desires, of that moment in time. Of course that was 20 years ago, and during that time I learned to trust, and remarry, only to learn of a trust in myself, and my abilities, disabilities, was a trust I could not depend on to hold a marriage together. Funny thing about trust, and the need for both in a union to trust each other in support during difficult times, and the weaknesses of able bodied people, passionately claiming concern for others, when their only concern is self.
My trust is in myself, God, and who I Am. To be convinced of another union would require a lady of the same strengths. Not holding my breath on this issue.
