Why do we choose to met people online instead of Out There

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Big_John Ocean Springs, Mississippi USA

Mon Dec 22, 2008 9:12 PM CST : Why do we choose to met people online instead of Out There?

For me, I know myself. Out There, I would get utterly entranced with a woman who smells good and looks good, and we would have absolutely nothing in common. I know I'm a bit different, but normal, and I am looking for someone equally normal. But what about you? Why look in here instead of Out There?

mastic55 Long Island, New York USA

Mon Dec 22, 2008 9:13 PM CST : Why do we choose to met people online instead of Out There?

Big_John: For me, I know myself. Out There, I would get utterly entranced with a woman who smells good and looks good, and we would have absolutely nothing in common. I know I'm a bit different, but normal, and I am looking for someone equally normal. But what about you? Why look in here instead of Out There?

mastic55 Long Island, New York USA

Mon Dec 22, 2008 9:14 PM CST : Why do we choose to met people online instead of Out There?

I'm a looking.....

LACali Southern California, California USA

Mon Dec 22, 2008 9:18 PM CST : Why do we choose to met people online instead of Out There?

Big_John: For me, I know myself. Out There, I would get utterly entranced with a woman who smells good and looks good, and we would have absolutely nothing in common. I know I'm a bit different, but normal, and I am looking for someone equally normal. But what about you? Why look in here instead of Out There?

You didn't say that on the snogging thread last night.

mylifewithu Springfield, Missouri USA

Mon Dec 22, 2008 9:19 PM CST : Why do we choose to met people online instead of Out There?

In response to: For me, I know myself. Out There, I would get utterly entranced with a woman who smells good and looks good, and we would have absolutely nothing in common. I know I'm a bit different, but normal, and I am looking for someone equally normal. But what about you? Why look in here instead of Out There?

Cause of the amount of failures out there haven't reached the amount of failures I have had on here yet.

Big_John Ocean Springs, Mississippi USA

Mon Dec 22, 2008 9:20 PM CST : Why do we choose to met people online instead of Out There?

LACali: You didn't say that on the snogging thread last night.

Hey at my age I can't remember what I said 5 minutes ago!

LACali Southern California, California USA

Mon Dec 22, 2008 9:22 PM CST : Why do we choose to met people online instead of Out There?

That's what HJ always says...

tina_olson Westby, Wisconsin USA

Mon Dec 22, 2008 9:23 PM CST : Why do we choose to met people online instead of Out There?

Very small town, either everyone is married or I can see why there not!!

Big_John Ocean Springs, Mississippi USA

Mon Dec 22, 2008 9:23 PM CST : Why do we choose to met people online instead of Out There?

mylifewithu: Cause of the amount of failures out there haven't reached the amount of failures I have had on here yet.

I don't worry about failures. Many great people have failed over and over again. I figure we just got to keep trying. Read about Abe Lincoln life:
1831 - Lost his job
1832 - Defeated in run for Illinois State Legislature
1833 - Failed in business
1834 - Elected to Illinois State Legislature (success)
1835 - Sweetheart died
1836 - Had nervous breakdown
1838 - Defeated in run for Illinois House Speaker
1843 - Defeated in run for nomination for U.S. Congress
1846 - Elected to Congress (success)
1848 - Lost re-nomination
1849 - Rejected for land officer position
1854 - Defeated in run for U.S. Senate
1856 - Defeated in run for nomination for Vice President
1858 - Again defeated in run for U.S. Senate
1860 - Elected President (success)

So a few failures at finding a soul mates isn't all that bad.

Big_John Ocean Springs, Mississippi USA

Mon Dec 22, 2008 9:24 PM CST : Why do we choose to met people online instead of Out There?

tina_olson: Very small town, either everyone is married or I can see why there not!!

Hey I live in a town of 17,000. I know what you talk about!

tina_olson Westby, Wisconsin USA

Mon Dec 22, 2008 9:26 PM CST : Why do we choose to met people online instead of Out There?

Big_John: Hey I live in a town of 17,000. I know what you talk about!

Try smaller-lol-population 2,000...........

Big_John Ocean Springs, Mississippi USA

Mon Dec 22, 2008 9:28 PM CST : Why do we choose to met people online instead of Out There?

tina_olson: Try smaller-lol-population 2,000...........

I have more rednecks...

You have more cheese...

wixomwizard Wixom, Michigan USA

Mon Dec 22, 2008 9:28 PM CST : Why do we choose to met people online instead of Out There?

Big_John: For me, I know myself. Out There, I would get utterly entranced with a woman who smells good and looks good, and we would have absolutely nothing in common. I know I'm a bit different, but normal, and I am looking for someone equally normal. But what about you? Why look in here instead of Out There?

We don't have to go home with them????

tina_olson Westby, Wisconsin USA

Mon Dec 22, 2008 9:31 PM CST : Why do we choose to met people online instead of Out There?

Big_John: I have more rednecks...

You have more cheese...

1 block from the local cheese creamery!!!

Big_John Ocean Springs, Mississippi USA

Mon Dec 22, 2008 9:31 PM CST : Why do we choose to met people online instead of Out There?

wixomwizard: We don't have to go home with them????

You're bad

Dawn7z Denver, Colorado USA

Mon Dec 22, 2008 9:33 PM CST : Why do we choose to met people online instead of Out There?

In response to: For me, I know myself. Out There, I would get utterly entranced with a woman who smells good and looks good, and we would have absolutely nothing in common. I know I'm a bit different, but normal, and I am looking for someone equally normal. But what about you? Why look in here instead of Out There?

Maybe not necessarily in a romantic sense but I have always wanted to translate some of these connections from online to in person. That was the whole idea but after a lot of meeting people who were basically strangers and making a few friends out of it frankly I am weary of meeting people in person and have backed off from it for a while. The forums have shown me that everyone has a bit of wisdom, some are very brilliant, some are just really shining people in that even from a few comments on a screen you can tell how wonderful they are and most of us are still just trying to figure it all out.
These forums have been a good experience too in a way a social experiment and it is true to life that you will connect with a few but most everyone will be simply an acquaintance.
I have no fear of meeting any one of you in person there would be some I would be friends with no matter what the venue and others that we would simply not have a meeting of the minds or personalities.

Big_John Ocean Springs, Mississippi USA

Mon Dec 22, 2008 9:36 PM CST : Why do we choose to met people online instead of Out There?

tina_olson: 1 block from the local cheese creamery!!!

Rednecks inside the house!!!!

LACali Southern California, California USA

Mon Dec 22, 2008 9:37 PM CST : Why do we choose to met people online instead of Out There?

Big_John: For me, I know myself. Out There, I would get utterly entranced with a woman who smells good and looks good, and we would have absolutely nothing in common. I know I'm a bit different, but normal, and I am looking for someone equally normal. But what about you? Why look in here instead of Out There?

Because even though I live in the place I grew up and should be comfortable with local culture there are so many things I don't like and since I can't move I thought maybe I'd meet some people with different values online. You've lived here you have some idea what I'm talking about.

Big_John Ocean Springs, Mississippi USA

Mon Dec 22, 2008 9:38 PM CST : Why do we choose to met people online instead of Out There?

Dawn7z: Maybe not necessarily in a romantic sense but I have always wanted to translate some of these connections from online to in person. That was the whole idea but after a lot of meeting people who were basically strangers and making a few friends out of it frankly I am weary of meeting people in person and have backed off from it for a while. The forums have shown me that everyone has a bit of wisdom, some are very brilliant, some are just really shining people in that even from a few comments on a screen you can tell how wonderful they are and most of us are still just trying to figure it all out.
These forums have been a good experience too in a way a social experiment and it is true to life that you will connect with a few but most everyone will be simply an acquaintance.
I have no fear of meeting any one of you in person there would be some I would be friends with no matter what the venue and others that we would simply not have a meeting of the minds or personalities.

I think this is what all of us are hoping for to find someone on line and to make in work in "real life". I have made some lasting friends from my on-line discussions. I haven't met Miss Right yet!

mylifewithu Springfield, Missouri USA

Mon Dec 22, 2008 9:38 PM CST : Why do we choose to met people online instead of Out There?

He had it made, so oh whaaaa he had trouble getting a few jobs or failure at business , some of us have done that double time, or the rough up bringing.

And then to go for being president , Hell I just wished I could've afforded a divorce and kept the kids and house.

I would've finished paying for it, no support needed.

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