LACali: Because even though I live in the place I grew up and should be comfortable with local culture there are so many things I don't like and since I can't move I thought maybe I'd meet some people with different values online. You've lived here you have some idea what I'm talking about.
California is a strange place of many different cultures and people. You live in an area where millions of people live, but you can be alone within that space. I loved my time in California. I hated my time in California. It was wonderful and horrible.
You can, for sure, meet people with different values on line. Real different. Some good and some really bad.
You need to find a way to be able to move....