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jocodi Del Rio, Texas USA
Hello sweetXstacy:
I do not read the threads part of the website, but your title caught my eyes.
Your thread, "Tips for guys that are honestly looking..." is very well written and thought out. Any guy that reads this should:
1) appreciate your words of wisdom and thank you,
2) take what you say and actually use it to change their life for the better.
I read the whole thing and was not bored - as it was quite interesting. You just did not only point out mistakes men make, but also offered a remedy. I also appreciated the thread as being intelligent, and in no way crude or demeaning. You only used one swear word.
That all threads, that all writings actually, would be this well written.
Thank you.
- J
venere08 Adelaide and Tuscany, South Australia Australia
X_REBEL: Ok then bit#h....


*She shakes her head doh



hrt4lse Redding, California USA
SexyAttorney: I would also like to add....please don't call me Sweetie, Honey, Hun, Babe, or Toots etc. in your first email to me or any email addressed to me. I am not your Babe or Honey and reserve those affectionate names when entering into a committed relationship. It is a huge turn-off gentlemen!


I agree with this one....but usually it's the scammers who are doing that right off the bat as well as giving out either their phone number or off site email.
X_REBEL North Shore, Auckland New Zealand
venere08: *She shakes her head


...and he laughs @ the ridiculous "tips" women hand out of how to play their game...why don't they just compile a rulebook then and it should be an awesome puppet display... laugh



mbcasey North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA
Stacy...good to see you back...please come more often!!!hug




hrt4lse Redding, California USA
X_REBEL: ...and he laughs @ the ridiculous "tips" women hand out of how to play their game...why don't they just compile a rulebook then and it should be an awesome puppet display...


In alot of ways what she wrote can be reversed and be tips for women too. I like the way she used the examples of how you'd act or present yourself on a first date with someone....you'd actually be trying to make a good first impression. There are some out there who don't think that needs to be done on line dunno
jvaski south lake tahoe, California USA
popcorn popcorn
alikhan90301 Los Angeles, California USA
THE ONLY REASON THE GIRLS GET 1000 REPLIES IS BECAUSE THEY ARE SHOWING THIER T&A. YEA, I WOULD REPLY TO THAT WITH "LET ME HIT IT TOO BABY. OR I GOT NEXT" WHO SAID "WOMEN DONT KNOW WHAT THEY WANT?" I KNOW MANY GIRLS WHO HAVE THEIR MIND SET ON A PARTICULAR PENIS, IT DOESNT HURT TO TRY TO CONVINCE HER OTHERWISE BY STICKING MY HEAD IN THERE. BOT OR NOT, I TREAT THEM EQUALLY. IN LAS VEGAS, YOU CANT TELL A REGULAR GIRL FROM A PROSTITUTE. THEY ARE ALL THE SAME. IF YOU HAVE FRIENDS ON HERE, GOOD. IF I DONT GET TO HIT IT WITH YOU, I MIGHT GET LUCKY WITH YOUR FRIEND. IF A MAN LOOKS GOOD OR IS CONFIDENT, IT DONT MATTER IF HE HAS FRAGMENTS, OR CANT SPELL. THE ONLY THING HE SHOULD BE ABLE TO PROVIDE IS HIS PENIS. DAMN, YOU WANT PEOPLE TO READ ALL THAT TO GET GIRLS. SHIT, ANYONE FOLLOWING HER ADVISE WILL FAIL OR GET PLAYED. MY ADVISE SAY WHAT YOU PLEASE.
jvaski south lake tahoe, California USA
uh oh popcorn



SexyAttorney Clearwater, Florida USA
alikhan90301: THE ONLY REASON THE GIRLS GET 1000 REPLIES IS BECAUSE THEY ARE SHOWING THIER T&A. YEA, I WOULD REPLY TO THAT WITH "LET ME HIT IT TOO BABY. OR I GOT NEXT" WHO SAID "WOMEN DONT KNOW WHAT THEY WANT?" I KNOW MANY GIRLS WHO HAVE THEIR MIND SET ON A PARTICULAR PENIS, IT DOESNT HURT TO TRY TO CONVINCE HER OTHERWISE BY STICKING MY HEAD IN THERE. BOT OR NOT, I TREAT THEM EQUALLY. IN LAS VEGAS, YOU CANT TELL A REGULAR GIRL FROM A PROSTITUTE. THEY ARE ALL THE SAME. IF YOU HAVE FRIENDS ON HERE, GOOD. IF I DONT GET TO HIT IT WITH YOU, I MIGHT GET LUCKY WITH YOUR FRIEND. IF A MAN LOOKS GOOD OR IS CONFIDENT, IT DONT MATTER IF HE HAS FRAGMENTS, OR CANT SPELL. THE ONLY THING HE SHOULD BE ABLE TO PROVIDE IS HIS PENIS. DAMN, YOU WANT PEOPLE TO READ ALL THAT TO GET GIRLS. SHIT, ANYONE FOLLOWING HER ADVISE WILL FAIL OR GET PLAYED. MY ADVISE SAY WHAT YOU PLEASE.


Yes, we are just here for you men to be able to provide your penis'. Finally some intelligent man that really understands us.....barf



hrt4lse Redding, California USA
Hey jvaski....send my principal home in one piece...lol Think he's been there skiing for the past few days.
X_REBEL North Shore, Auckland New Zealand
hrt4lse: In alot of ways what she wrote can be reversed and be tips for women too. I like the way she used the examples of how you'd act or present yourself on a first date with someone....you'd actually be trying to make a good first impression. There are some out there who don't think that needs to be done on line


Belielve me your average man is far less complicated when it comes to dating stuff. Men don't think about this as woman think. Men don't wanna fine tune something that is suppose to be a natural thing. Why things don't work out...men wants things simple(in a loving way), whereas women complicates matters...Woman try forever nowadays to change man's behaviour or prescribing to him how to act around them. How dreadful is that? confused



hrt4lse Redding, California USA
X_REBEL: Belielve me your average man is far less complicated when it comes to dating stuff. Men don't think about this as woman think. Men don't wanna fine tune something that is suppose to be a natural thing. Why things don't work out...men wants things simple(in a loving way), whereas women complicates matters...Woman try forever nowadays to change man's behaviour or prescribing to him how to act around them. How dreadful is that?


Someone posted on here a video from YouTube about the differences between men's brains & women's brains. Men have compartmentalized boxes that never touch, the only deal with what's inside that box and they like their "nothing" box the best. Women's brains are all wires connected to each other so they're constantly firing. It was pretty funny.

I do want a guy to be himself....I want him to talk to me on here the same as he would talk to me in person, face-to-face. But even then with that simplicity I have a hard time finding guys who are sincere & ready to actually try to connect.
X_REBEL North Shore, Auckland New Zealand
SexyAttorney: Yes, we are just here for you men to be able to provide your penis'. Finally some intelligent man that really understands us.....


1)some "intelligent" men has no interest to understand women.
2)some men try to understand women and fail...
3)some men think they understand women and fail...
4)most women think they understand one another...and fail.

Morale of the story..."don't try and understand woman" laugh



hrt4lse Redding, California USA
X_REBEL: 1)some "intelligent" men has no interest to understand women.
2)some men try to understand women and fail...
3)some men think they understand women and fail...
4)most women think they understand one another...and fail.

Morale of the story..."don't try and understand woman"


Here's the video I was talking about

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GuMZ73mT5zM&feature=related
venere08 Adelaide and Tuscany, South Australia Australia
X_REBEL: ...and he laughs @ the ridiculous "tips" women hand out of how to play their game...why don't they just compile a rulebook then and it should be an awesome puppet display...


Great idea, X...this could be the start of episode 1 of a CS and prolly first ever, cyber "Punch and Judy" show!thumbs up

applause cheering
X_REBEL North Shore, Auckland New Zealand
hrt4lse: Someone posted on here a video from YouTube about the differences between men's brains & women's brains. Men have compartmentalized boxes that never touch, the only deal with what's inside that box and they like their "nothing" box the best. Women's brains are all wires connected to each other so they're constantly firing. It was pretty funny.

I do want a guy to be himself....I want him to talk to me on here the same as he would talk to me in person, face-to-face. But even then with that simplicity I have a hard time finding guys who are sincere & ready to actually try to connect.


You can't make us into something we're not...The days for playing and dressing dolls ended at age 7 for women...

Too many wires in a womens brain= miss firing... wink



hrt4lse Redding, California USA
X_REBEL: Too many wires in a womens brain= miss firing...


laugh Could be

If you haven't yet, watch the video, it's pretty good
venere08 Adelaide and Tuscany, South Australia Australia
alikhan90301: THE ONLY REASON THE GIRLS GET 1000 REPLIES


all I can say is, this convinces me to keep my "Samantha Honeybee" profile up.

I'm quite happy with no-one contacting me!rolling on the floor laughing
X_REBEL North Shore, Auckland New Zealand
hrt4lse: Here's the video I was talking about

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GuMZ73mT5zM&feature=related


...whatever...




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