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X_REBEL North Shore, Auckland New Zealand
SexyAttorney: I post where I want and what I want....seems I hit a wimp nerve with you...


Not even close "baby"...laugh This puppet can't be phase out... wink
venere08 Adelaide and Tuscany, South Australia Australia
mylifewithu: I don't go for men giving me little lovey names either,until we are serious about each other. Otherwise it's fake, I hate fakes and liars


but, but, but...Sorry ladies, but I must interject here. professor

CS'ers like vinny often call me honey, and even my GF's call me hunny bun. Oh, and then there's Harry (wixom), and....

And I do the same with them. confused

dunno hug
X_REBEL North Shore, Auckland New Zealand
venere08: Sexy?


Nooo please...then they'll think we're after sex only...laugh
venere08 Adelaide and Tuscany, South Australia Australia
X_REBEL: Not even close "baby"... This puppet can't be phase out...


Psssst. Call her Sexy. That's her name! roll eyes
mylifewithu Springfield, Missouri USA
venere08: but, but, but...Sorry ladies, but I must interject here.

CS'ers like vinny often call me honey, and even my GF's call me hunny bun. Oh, and then there's Harry (wixom), and....

And I do the same with them.
Sure all of my friends that know me well and have proved their friendships and have been there for me have called me sweety names, that was fine with me too. It has to be real to me , sincere , truthful that they care. Then sure it works then.wink grin
venere08 Adelaide and Tuscany, South Australia Australia
Nooo please...then they'll think we're after sex only...laugh

venere08: Psssst. Call her Sexy. That's her name!


Oops...we posted at the same timegrin



canadane Edmonton, Alberta Canada
popcorn popcorn popcorn popcorn popcorn popcorn popcorn
jvaski south lake tahoe, California USA
Canadane............. you're gonna get heartburn if ya eat that much popcorn while watching all this Kackling goin on laugh
venere08 Adelaide and Tuscany, South Australia Australia
mylifewithu: Sure all of my friends that know me well and have proved their friendships and have been there for me have called me sweety names, that was fine with me too. It has to be real to me , sincere , truthful that they care. Then sure it works then.


This will be interesting.

Must ask vinny if he really caresrolling on the floor laughing
venere08 Adelaide and Tuscany, South Australia Australia
jvaski: Canadane............. you're gonna get heartburn if ya eat that much popcorn while watching all this Kackling goin on


* I think he has delegated himself Chief stud c@#% roosterbanana
venere08 Adelaide and Tuscany, South Australia Australia
venere08: This will be interesting.

Must ask vinny if he really cares


Oh, and ask vinny to prove his friendshiplove

rolling on the floor laughing
Gneee cairns, Queensland Australia
sweetXstacy: I don't expect a man to think or feel the way women do. I like men the way they are. The advice was simply a way to help men succeed more when approaching a woman through email. A lot of them have no clue what to say or how to say it BECAUSE they don't think or feel like us. This advice wasn't referring to all men and if nothing in it helped you understand at least some of us better then no problem. I am not sure why you took this so defensively.
hmmm i dont think u need to think or feel like a woman to b a genuin PERSON i think a genuin person will send a message then a little reply afterwords to c if there getting noticed then if they dont well it didnt work out....and i dont think it would be hard for a real genuin person to say a little more than i dont want to wast time on u so well that just explains its self...i think if a lady is genuin about meeting some1 and they meet a guy looking for the same thing then well there u go it go's both ways yay peace
DonQuay Dublin, Dublin Ireland
sweetXstacy: 9. Myth: Not all good girls want bad boys. Bad boys are just great at PRETENDING to be good and everything we want. By the time we realize they are assholes, we feel obligated to make things work. Most of us want the nice ones from the start.....but be who you are from day one. If you really can't afford Ruth's Chris Steakhouse, don't take us there....or let us know it's a special occasion. IF you think walking on the beach at dusk is about as fun as watching paint dry, don't pretend to like it. Either don't go or TELL US it isn't normally something you like to do but will if we want to. Just be honest.

10. You wouldn't see a pretty girl in the grocery store, walk up to her and say "What size bra do you wear?" or "When is the last time you had sex?" Why ask that on here? I can't believe how many men say they aren't looking for JUST sex but that's ALL they want to talk about. Sex is part of a relationship....we are all adults and all enjoy it. Spend time getting to know whether or not the person is worth your time before venturing onto that path. If they are, it will happen naturally.....and will probably be even better since there is trust and feelings involved.

OK....That is enough for one day. I hope this helps the one guy that read it all the way through. He must be as bored as I am.


1 to 10 could also refer to women. Though in the case of 10 .... you would rarely find a woman chatting up an any man in a grocery store and whose first question is - what type of car do you drive?, where do you live? or what do you do for a living?... ....... so again- Why ask me that on here??

For a woman ... it's always in a mans wallet - first and foremost.

Hugh
Gneee cairns, Queensland Australia
on the contrary i think ppl in general are looking for a genuin person rather than saying men dont think like ladys so they dont know what these things are well i find this rather unrational...



Beethovenfan West County St. Louis , Missouri USA
DonQuay: 1 to 10 could also refer to women. Though in the case of 10 .... you would rarely find a woman chatting up an any man in a grocery store and whose first question is - what type of car do you drive?, where do you live? or what do you do for a living?... ....... so again- Why ask me that on here??

For a woman ... it's always in a mans wallet - first and foremost.

Hugh
Agree...and here in St louis, many men dont have jobs and are looking for a woman to take care of them...The first question that comes up..."Where do you work?" I have even some ask if my house was paid for...unreal.... Sharon
venere08 Adelaide and Tuscany, South Australia Australia
DonQuay: 1 to 10 could also refer to women. Though in the case of 10 .... you would rarely find a woman chatting up an any man in a grocery store and whose first question is - what type of car do you drive?, where do you live? or what do you do for a living?... ....... so again- Why ask me that on here??

For a woman ... it's always in a mans wallet - first and foremost. Hugh


No, not always. But as I have said on other threads in the past,
why on earth would a woman of any means, that is, one who is financially independent, might have properties of her own, or whatever else, want to get into a relationship with a man who is penniless? dunno

Contrary to myth, women are not purely emotional creatures. Some do think as well. And one thing I think about is making sure if I ever get into another serious, long term relationship, then you bet that the size of the wallet will be important.

It's not just the man these days who might want to protect their assets!professor

cheers



* I think we need a "k'ching" icon here!
Darkhorseman Gold Coast, Queensland Australia
1. Woman get 10 times more responses than you when she places an ad. If she has a picture with her ad, she might get as many as 500 or 600 responses. Especially if she has that come hither look ... Then she can write lots of, "Don't men want anything but sex?"strings and whnge to her heart's content.

2. Contrary to a man's belief, we do know what we want.We want MONEY that's what we want If we say please be between 25 and 35.....don't write and say "I'm 50 but....." Tell lies like most of us about your age, we are never going to meet anyway

3. Say something to us!!!! something sickly sweet like we watch on "Days of Our Lives' is best. We don't know what is going on in the World and we don't want to. We want to know how beautiful we are. Don't say "I don't want to waste my time even though you are, what importance is time, unles it is spent on me. so I am keeping this short." What a turn off!!! If you are actually interested, you would be willing to waste 10 minutes of your day letting that be known... and don't let a picture do all the talking for you. Good-looking guys are a dime a dozendoesn't that count for good looking women too?. What makes you different than them?They won't let me put a picture of that on this site.

4. A lot of us have friendsLOOOSE definition on here and we TALK to each other. Don't send a pre-written form letter to all of us saying how great we are. You will be busted and look lame. It only takes a few minutes to show that you are genuinely interested.and I've lost inteest already.

5. Use your brain....someone has to.if it looks like a bot and sounds like a bot, it probably is. (Hint...if it says Hampton Roads for a location, chances are it is a bot.) If the profile is full of detail and everyday pictures (especially of people you see posting on a regular basis), it is probably real. Don't ask. Have some faith.

6. The email is your first chance to make a good impression. and the impression that you have made is about as deep as a butt on a hardwood plank. MOST of you wouldn't show up to a first date wearing dirty jeans and a ripped shirt...sending an email full of typos sends the same message. We don't all have English degrees, but spell-check is now a built-in function from most email providers. Consider it to be your new best friend.You were on the cheer squad weren't you. Did Daddy buy you a car if you made the squad?

venere08 Adelaide and Tuscany, South Australia Australia
Darkhorseman: 1. Woman get 10 times more responses than you when she places an ad. If she has a picture with her ad, she might get as many as 500 or 600 responses. Especially if she has that come hither look ... Then she can write lots of, "Don't men want anything but sex?"strings and whnge to her heart's content.

2. Contrary to a man's belief, we do know what we want.We want MONEY that's what we want If we say please be between 25 and 35.....don't write and say "I'm 50 but....." Tell lies like most of us about your age, we are never going to meet anyway

3. Say something to us!!!! something sickly sweet like we watch on "Days of Our Lives' is best. We don't know what is going on in the World and we don't want to. We want to know how beautiful we are. Don't say "I don't want to waste my time even though you are, what importance is time, unles it is spent on me. so I am keeping this short." What a turn off!!! If you are actually interested, you would be willing to waste 10 minutes of your day letting that be known... and don't let a picture do all the talking for you. Good-looking guys are a dime a dozendoesn't that count for good looking women too?. What makes you different than them?They won't let me put a picture of that on this site.

4. A lot of us have friendsLOOOSE definition on here and we TALK to each other. Don't send a pre-written form letter to all of us saying how great we are. You will be busted and look lame. It only takes a few minutes to show that you are genuinely interested.and I've lost inteest already.

5. Use your brain....someone has to.if it looks like a bot and sounds like a bot, it probably is. (Hint...if it says Hampton Roads for a location, chances are it is a bot.) If the profile is full of detail and everyday pictures (especially of people you see posting on a regular basis), it is probably real. Don't ask. Have some faith.

6. The email is your first chance to make a good impression. and the impression that you have made is about as deep as a butt on a hardwood plank. MOST of you wouldn't show up to a first date wearing dirty jeans and a ripped shirt...sending an email full of typos sends the same message. We don't all have English degrees, but spell-check is now a built-in function from most email providers. Consider it to be your new best friend.You were on the cheer squad weren't you. Did Daddy buy you a car if you made the squad?


Hi M.wave

Now where was this from? confused

cheers

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vinny1967 On Tour, Devon, England UK
venere08: but, but, but...Sorry ladies, but I must interject here.

CS'ers like vinny often call me honey, and even my GF's call me hunny bun. Oh, and then there's Harry (wixom), and....

And I do the same with them.


And I wouldn't have it any other way gorgeous wave

Have to motorcycle as I'm off to the Ukraine laugh

bouquet
vinny1967 On Tour, Devon, England UK
If I can be serious here for a minute

I use the terms Dear and Honey and so on only as terms of

endearment. I never use them in a condescending way and I only

use them with people I like. Some people might say it's old

fashioned and I say yes so what. I am old fashioned when it comes to treating Ladies. I hold doors open, I open car doors, I remind my lady every day how beautiful she is and how much I love her. I stop for Ladies when they are stuck on the side of the road with a puncture. I like to collect a Lady when going on a date.

Not all old fashioned things are bad.

JMO

Well thats my serious moment for the day.

Bye Honies tongue

laugh




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