yrswarrior: I have been an over weight guy my whole life and the only way i can keep the weight off is constant working out. When i slack i gain weight fast. I have been attracted to woman when i was over weight and they wouldnt give me the time of day but when i was in shape they would have no problems giving me the time of day so i didnt talk to them. Im all about giving woman complements when Im out and about. It nice to get a complement out of the blue. Telling a woman she looks nice. Puts a smile on your face and a bounce in thier step. If we could all do this it would be a better place. Instead people focus on the bad things. There is nothing Average about a person every one has there unique qualites. As for me i think my best quality is paying attention to the other person desires.
Why do you expect women to accept you, when you are overweight? Isn't that like expecting people to accept and deal with your problems, for you?
Like it or not, there's that little thing called 'choice' and we all have it.
Go to the gym
or stop complaining.