May 2009 bring her to you, Chip. I found mine before Christmas, and I feel very blessed. I wish you the best, and much luck in your search. Have patience. I know that's easier said than done at times, but this special man came in here when I had stopped looking, and I had my reasons for fighting it at first...but I'm glad I let him convince me to give it all I've got.
Merry Christmas, and a Happy New Year.