is love at first site real?

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HJFinAZ Sun CIty, Arizona USA
If only I could find one that "I PERCEIVE" as being truly happy in themselves....sigh
Marillynslife labangon, Cebu City Philippines
Anything is possible.

But i dont think if love at first site is real.



rwantin Costa Mesa, California USA
I believe the potential for love exists in first sight.
HJFinAZ Sun CIty, Arizona USA
rwantin: I believe the potential for love exists in first sight.


Yesterday I went to many "parties" (you know the ones I mean) and fell in "love" several times..grin



rwantin Costa Mesa, California USA
HJFinAZ: Yesterday I went to many "parties" (you know the ones I mean) and fell in "love" several times..


Nothing wrong with that! dancing
HJFinAZ Sun CIty, Arizona USA
rwantin: Nothing wrong with that!


I didn't think so..heart wings

Problem was, they spoke..sigh


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Apostophe Boksburg, Johannesburg South Africa
LostInIndiana: Love .... no.Total unbridled lust .... you better believe it.



Gosh - golly gee and gee willickers!




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Dknew Lee, New Hampshire USA
Lust at 1st sight yes, Love at 1st sight NO.



LACali Southern California, California USA
25 years ago I fell in love with someone the moment I saw him (I still remember the day so clearly even though I can't remember what I did last week.) He with me as well. It lasted a very long time. So I do believe. I don't know what it is since it wasn't purely physical nor was it lust. I have no explanation just that it does happen.



kissmedeeply Petitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada
BarrenPneuma: Lust is about me Love is about you. Say that out loud and you will clearly define the two and see the polar differences.

You can never truly know anyone else, not even your own children. So how is it possible or required to know someone to Love them? What is in a person's heart and mind are often different things and we have little ability to manage to dump the contents of our own heads out in words or feelings, never mind the translational problems of interpretting the heart and soul.
Love at first sight is possible and very real. Have a little faith it is the precursor to trust and an imperative to Love.

Love does not require a reciprocal it merely is. When you demand to have it returned it never was Love in the first place.


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Antjo39 Pucara, Puno Peru
pubwrite08: I have been chatting with this guy, and I met him in person, and Lord have mercy. I am praying for good sense. and I am not talking about his looks.

Love at first site? is that a game of words?
If that is the question, I mean "love at first SITE" then I would say that it can happen too.
Well, any shit can happen in this world.laugh laugh laugh wine



ddk12lt Whitehall, Pennsylvania USA
No one can say it better than KissMeDeeply. Great thought has gone into her response. Wonderful perspectives, my dear one.

And, for those who missed it, the question is "Is Love At First Sight Real?"



ger1916 kildare / dublin, Kildare Ireland
definitley .... love knows no boundskiss kiss kiss kiss



buzzy biddeford, Maine USA
No, but I'll walk by again if you wish.laugh
dinncat limerick, Limerick Ireland
dual site yeh otherwise you end up a stalker frustrated



laura225 Somewhere, New York USA
Ambrose2007: CS was my first site, and love did occur, so yes.


laugh laugh

CS is my blushing first site too...

stuck


confused so you say love at first site IS smitten real?! laugh

cheers laugh I'll stay.

Thanks for encouragement, J. bouquet
Shadow_lover West Palm, Florida USA
pubwrite08: I have been chatting with this guy, and I met him in person, and Lord have mercy. I am praying for good sense. and I am not talking about his looks.


I personally don’t believe in love at first sight, I do believe in lust at first sight. I think just seeing someone you can feel drawn to them and want to kiss them right there or maybe more, but that’s lust not love, love is much deeper.
morgan5 somewhere sunny , Canarias Spain
think you can love the visual image on first site, but it's the person inside that's important. I have met some good looking guy's but they have been superficial and complete asshole's once i've got to know them
dcj22 Somewhere, Kansas USA
Shadow_lover: I personally don’t believe in love at first sight, I do believe in lust at first sight. I think just seeing someone you can feel drawn to them and want to kiss them right there or maybe more, but that’s lust not love, love is much deeper.



I agree with this. 100% Love must grown. Lust can be instantaneous. And often has been. giggle
dcj22 Somewhere, Kansas USA
BarrenPneuma: Lust is about me Love is about you. Say that out loud and you will clearly define the two and see the polar differences.

You can never truly know anyone else, not even your own children. So how is it possible or required to know someone to Love them? What is in a person's heart and mind are often different things and we have little ability to manage to dump the contents of our own heads out in words or feelings, never mind the translational problems of interpretting the heart and soul.
Love at first sight is possible and very real. Have a little faith it is the precursor to trust and an imperative to Love.

Love does not require a reciprocal it merely is. When you demand to have it returned it never was Love in the first place.



I may not agree 100% with what you write, Mark, but I do love to read it. I'll be glad when you're back, my friend. hug




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