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yrswarrior Pearland, Texas USA
Fri Dec 26, 2008 1:23 PM CST : Can anyone relate?
I think the question is do we go through our lives trying to find that one person that has every single quality that you want. Or do you find the one that makes you happy and deal with there faults.

I think it is all about trust if you dont have thte trust or if you have any doubts then you end the relationship. I dont believe there is that one special person that has everything you hope and dream for.

Is that wrong.
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Shirley49WV Mason Co, West Virginia USA
Fri Dec 26, 2008 1:25 PM CST : Can anyone relate?
HJFinAZ: But, were they really "failures", or were they chances to grow and to learn?


thumbs up For me to grow and learn.
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Shirley49WV Mason Co, West Virginia USA
Fri Dec 26, 2008 1:28 PM CST : Can anyone relate?
HJFinAZ: I see...... That self-inventory stuff..

But it is always to easier to blame "others" for our problems, our failures..


But once we learn to do our inventory and grow from our failures.....life is so much sweeter. grin

But I still learn and grow "One day at a time." hug
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choppinsman manton, Michigan USA
Fri Dec 26, 2008 1:29 PM CST : Can anyone relate?
sweetowen: I could never understand how someone always had to have someone in his/her life. To me, that makes for some bad choices. Usually, just so they're not "lonely", they get together with the first thing that comes along & shows them any attention.

I think personally, that after each relationship has ended, one has to take time to "find" him/herself again & be happy on his/her own. If you're just looking for someone to fill that void, it seems to me, it's just an addiction & not truly wanting to find your perfect match.



well said.

If you are not in order and at peace with yourself then you can only burden any potential match with no end to your last relationship.
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HJFinAZ Sun CIty, Arizona USA
Fri Dec 26, 2008 5:13 PM CST : Can anyone relate?
sweetowen: I could never understand how someone always had to have someone in his/her life. To me, that makes for some bad choices. Usually, just so they're not "lonely", they get together with the first thing that comes along & shows them any attention.

I think personally, that after each relationship has ended, one has to take time to "find" him/herself again & be happy on his/her own. If you're just looking for someone to fill that void, it seems to me, it's just an addiction & not truly wanting to find your perfect match.


You should have known me a few years ago, I could justify ANYTHING, regardless of how sic it was..sigh
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HJFinAZ Sun CIty, Arizona USA
Fri Dec 26, 2008 5:15 PM CST : Can anyone relate?
yrswarrior: I think the question is do we go through our lives trying to find that one person that has every single quality that you want. Or do you find the one that makes you happy and deal with there faults.

I think it is all about trust if you dont have thte trust or if you have any doubts then you end the relationship. I dont believe there is that one special person that has everything you hope and dream for.

Is that wrong.


There is not a single one that would MAKE me happy.. That is my job and mine alone. It comes from the INSIDE..wink
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LACali Southern California, California USA
Fri Dec 26, 2008 5:17 PM CST : Can anyone relate?
yrswarrior: I think the question is do we go through our lives trying to find that one person that has every single quality that you want. Or do you find the one that makes you happy and deal with there faults.

I think it is all about trust if you dont have thte trust or if you have any doubts then you end the relationship. I dont believe there is that one special person that has everything you hope and dream for.

Is that wrong.


Yes, if they let you.
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Marseilles Somewhere, Indiana USA
Fri Dec 26, 2008 5:28 PM CST : Can anyone relate?
HJFinAZ: There is not a single one that would MAKE me happy.. That is my job and mine alone. It comes from the INSIDE..


thumbs up Well said!thumbs up

If you cannot be happy alone then no one can make you happy.
Happiness is a state of being, not a state of being with someone else.
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