migratingbird: dear lady..good men are rare..and what u do if u find one..just like other women , u kik him in the bum for his race nationality status etc etc..no lady , women dont like good men..they lobe cheaters and liars because such men gives them something to think about..women need to be worried about something need to be jelous ..and that is what they get..and the good men resort to water mellon for self satisfaction
I am sorry you feel that way. I met a nice guy, invited him into my home, let him stay at my house without him paying a cent, I worked all day, cleaned house, mowed the lawn, while he was secretly getting drunk. Then one day, he hit me in the back of the head for no reason other than he was drunk. Then the next day he hit me again, so I had this nice man arrested. So, before you put all of us women in a category, you need to find the reason we break up with these nice men. I also am big enough to forgive him for what he did, but certainy won't continue a relationship with an abuser. I won't even get into the mental abuse he put me through. Have a nice day.