sadegh1979: Absolutely Noooo
By the way I did not mean a common friendship that you always accept it, I mean for making dates and and after that to living with her/him!Only if he/she proposes you,
That's not long-term friendship, that's a romantic relationship.
I will tell a relavent story, though. I had a boyfriend in the Army that I had a very stormy relationship with...fire and ice constantly with him. He contacted me from England as he was getting out of the Army, wanted to stop to see me sometime. I hadn't heard from him in about 4 years at that point. Yes, I still remembered him with love then, so why not? He spent a weekend with me and then I went to Buffalo, NY and spent a weekend with him. At the end of that weekend, he proposed that I move there and live with him...as a friend. We'd see other people.

I haven't spoken to him since I left there.

I do still have many fond memories of him, though.