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druidess6308: Yes, it should apply to any friendship...and yes, it implies a small amount of lack of trust. Did I mention I wasn't pleasantly surprised to discover this truth about myself? However, I'm honest. There are situations where I might have a problem with this. But I'll also say that I'd feel the same if he were spending too much time alone out with his male buddies. And I would hope that he'd feel the same if I were spending too much time out with my female buddies. Again, my problem would come more with frequency.

Do we both need to be able to have time with our friends? Yes. Should it matter if they are male or female? No. Are there times when it might? Yes...for me.

Ambrose2007: Yes, Laura, the wrong degree of possessiveness can be downright nauseous...

buzzy: Kissmedeeply, Fear rules your life.

kissmedeeply: how in the Hell did you come up with that..

My husband and I agee on this about opposite sex..no arguments
about it..

Marriage is about making each other happy..not the outside world...

Fear has nothing to do with it..

I dont want to go out with the opposite sex..neither does he..

So i dont see a problem here..

Why do y'all see such a problem with what he/me agree to..

laura225: Gosh, I agree with that J. - can become really nauseating

See ya all, later

I wasted my on-line time trying to get rid of this bubblegum-in-CS-hair creature

Ambrose2007: I believe you both are ruled by a terrible terror, Joanne!

ModestlyAwesome: As long as she isn't canceling plans with me to go hang out with him I'm usually okay with it. I can't say I don't get a little jealous but usually it's more because he gets to spend time with her when I can't. Like the woman I'm dating now is in CA for the holidays and is hanging out with all of her close friends which 4/6's are women, one's homosexual, and the other has no interest in her in that way, but I get a little jealous because they get to spend time with her while I'm stuck with my family here in AZ

As long as he isn't displaying an interest and actually making moves on her (or vice versa) I'm usually fine with it.

kissmedeeply: how in the Hell did you come up with that..

My husband and I agee on this about opposite sex..no arguments
about it..

Marriage is about making each other happy..not the outside world...

Fear has nothing to do with it..

I dont want to go out with the opposite sex..neither does he..

So i dont see a problem here..

Why do y'all see such a problem with what he/me agree to..

ModestlyAwesome: As long as she isn't canceling plans with me to go hang out with him I'm usually okay with it. I can't say I don't get a little jealous but usually it's more because he gets to spend time with her when I can't. Like the woman I'm dating now is in CA for the holidays and is hanging out with all of her close friends which 4/6's are women, one's homosexual, and the other has no interest in her in that way, but I get a little jealous because they get to spend time with her while I'm stuck with my family here in AZ

As long as he isn't displaying an interest and actually making moves on her (or vice versa) I'm usually fine with it.

druidess6308: I don't see any problem with what you two agree to in your relationship. This is something that must be in sync between partners, and every couple needs to do what is comfortable for both of them.

The only time that it becomes a problem is when both partners don't share the same viewpoint on it.

ModestlyAwesome: Especially if you are both in agreement and are both happy I think you're on the right path.

ModestlyAwesome: Damn, don't know how that double post happened. I only hit the button once.