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Every relationship is different...depending on the people involved in it...each persons values...experiences etc....no two relationships will ever be identical nor will the boundaries they set or anything else....therefore expecting people to hold the same views on anything...or share the same thoughts on things when it comes to relationships is redundant...it's not gonna happen...we are all individuals...and individual couples...who share and see things differently...the last time I looked there was no list of rules for relationships...and even if there were...it would make no difference....


Nobody therefore is wrong...just different...which should be expected....otherwise...we would all the same and boring as hell....

If I don't trust you, I have no right being with you..

If you don' trust me, you have no right being with me..



And we say we are adults....

Hello Sister 1%

apparently to him he thinks i dont love him and dont have a
commitment with my husband becos of what Eric and I agree on

We Are

I wont date someone who does not know how to have healthy relationships with members of the opposite gender. If they have hang ups of that degree, then they will not be dating me. I date adults, not jealous children... and a man who finds his imagination creating issues before they happen is not mature enough for me.
Period.

its all about trust if you trust your partner then there should be no problem i personally would not mind them talking she is entitled to her friends same as me

Well that's between you and Eric doll..you have the marriage and nobody has a right to say what is right or wrong but the two of you...

Didn't you mean to say "WE ARE?"????

I disagree i trust my partner 100%

Its others i dont trust..

and he trust me..and dont trusts others..

and we are not talking about just talking to them..

Its going out to dinner without ur partner with the
opposite sex..or going away to another city alone over
night with the opposite sex

Kissmedeeply, I do not have a problem with you or your husband's choices. You have the right to run your life any way you choose. I'm happy that you and he found each other. I had that for 26 years and could choose to have it again. If you and your husband however, are so strong about your commitment to each other and have complete trust in each other, why do you not allow him to have a female friend? You see, sitting down thinking about my ending marriage, mostly the good things, I realized that my partner and I had that type of relationship. I could be alone with female friends and she could be alone with male friends. And we could still look each other in the eye at the end of the day because we were faithful to each other. That is the type of freedom of fear I'm talking about Kissme. That is what true love really is and I pray you and your husband reach that point, or have. It is true freedom from fear. I did not have that in my first marriage, it didn't last long. And it will be the same freedom I will bring into my next relationship, if I ever choose to let it happen again. No hurry! True happiness and peace to you and your husband.

hmmm i think i did say that didnt i..

Why do i not let him chose to have a female friend..becos
he choses not to..and i do..

DAmn have you not been reading what i have been saying..

ITS WHAT WE BOTH WANT..AND WHAT WE BOTH FEEL...

I took it as a statement, I wrote it as a question...

i know hun

well what works for you
but i would go up the wall if my partner didnd allow me to talk to my female friends if a friend had more on her mind what she going to do tie me up and force me to be unfaithful ?
a guy can have female friends and still be faithful jmo

apparently one person thinks that i am the one
keeping my husband away and vice versa..

Damn its choice/not making anyone to anything
they dont want to

If the "she", was to have "me" as her "BEST" friend, the "she" would have a problem..

If the "she" was a great, loving, wonderful friend, I would like that. My best friend??? NOT................

yes and i agree with that..

but when both agree not to have the opposite sex as friends..

then i dont see anything wrong with that at all..

English here pls

if that works for both of you thats great and both your choice and i respect that
just saying would not work for me