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Arlene101: Awwww I missed you too.

kissmedeeply: so you will be home for good tomorrow

Arlene101: Yes Ma'am.

kissmedeeply: Damn i hate when Eric answered
like that...just yes arlene will do just fine

kissmedeeply: love ya girl..how was ur xmas

kissmedeeply: I disagree i trust my partner 100%

Its others i dont trust..

and he trust me..and dont trusts others..

and we are not talking about just talking to them..

Its going out to dinner without ur partner with the
opposite sex..or going away to another city alone over
night with the opposite sex

HJFinAZ: It takes 2 (TWO) to Tango........

ModestlyAwesome: Geez I leave for a few hours and Kiss gets ambushed,

I'm not saying I'd do the same thing, but I can see where her and her husband come from. I know a few couples that have been married anywhere from a few years to a few decades and they just agree that it's better not to have the temptation at all. Yes if you trust someone you know they won't cheat. Yes if you love someone enough then you won't cheat. The way that they view it is they love each other enough that they don't want to even risk it happening. The couples I know are okay talking to others of the same genders as long as it's never alone, they go to dinner with their spouse and their opposite gendered friend and hang out together and they all get well fine and neither spouse is remotely upset by it.

I've stated my opinions earlier in the thread that I'm not in the same boat but I absolutely understand where they're coming from.

To summarize, what makes you happy, what makes me happy, what makes them happy, they're all different things. I know I don't need someone telling me I'm not as happy as I could be unless I do it their way, especially not when I'm on cloud 9.