psuedonym: well i hope you do do it again because there are heaps of men out there waiting for someone like you to give them a nudge and say "hi, i like your profile. how about we chat a bit and see what develops"
you may get a few rejections, you may get a few "no replys" but hey that's what it's like for a lot of us men. and sometimes we shut down for a while too, but it's like falling off a bike, ya gotta get back on and ride again.
again just my humble opinion
T/Y PSUEDONYM: I would love to chat with you. You are very
kind. After I get woke up a little more I will send you a
message if you don't mind. I promise I will keep it clean.

Just a little humor thrown in there to sort
of break the ice.