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dont be so hard on yourself really nice guy nice guys tend do do that im one of them rofl well i like to think so u need to take the good with the bad u will find that a intervidual being nice doesent make the world all nice but contributes as do the good things in life its allso called karma u will find being a good guy is a responsibility u take well sort of and take responsibility for the things u do that alon is fullfilling for me there for u seem to take ur days as they come with more good than bad creating ur karma as u go

Hello Handsome!!

Sure there's good in this world...do a GRATITUDE list.

Take a sheet of paper and on the left side,write down all THE THINGS your grateful for.

On the right side of the sheet,write down your problems.


Now compare,you should have more things to be grateful for than problems,and hopefully,the things you're grateful for might give you enough courage to work on your problems on the right side of the sheet.

Just a suggestion.....

Why not do as I do.I post positive threads.They are seldom popular,but now and then there are some good posts.So do something about it.
I have times I feel crappy and I do count my blessings,even the little ones we take for granted.There is always something good if you look for it.Accentuate the positive. Feel better please

There is a lot of good in this world. Rilly lots of good people sometimes it comes in something as simple as seeing a baby smile at us, someone giving another person a hug or as awesome as a community raising money for a family in need. There are a lot of those type of people on here too. Those who when they give a virtual hug it is as if it was the real thing. Those who weep with others. Those who are spunky those who are funny. Those who love and cause us to laugh.

---everything on this world is good-seen unseen and all that is perceived- imagined

I know how u feel lol

Since few understood!


This thread was saying: Is there not any good in this world, that most all threads are unhappy subjects.

I have posted lots of light hearted threads. It just makes me ticked that people want to gripe so much.

Men are shit!
Women are shit!
US is shit!
Others are shit!
The past pres is shit!
The new pres is shit!
My dog is great but his dog house is shit!
ON AND ON AND ON!

And is anyone doing anything about making it better.....hopefully me by BITCHING!

CAN PEOPLE NOT FIND SOMETHING GOOD TO TALK ABOUT.....IT DOES NOT HAVE TO BE SILLY SHIT!

Does anyone want to talk about cooking, gardening, wines, collectables, hobbies....the things that bring closeness instead of sides of bitching! I have started threads and no one post to them or in two post someone jokes once or twice then it bitching again!

It that and sex all we as a people are concerned about!

Len...you are what is good in this world.

It's not the thread titles, it is the people who are posting in them.

I think the overwhelming majority of forum posters are good people. Sometimes the topics go a bit over the top, but most of it is in good fun.


I enjoy reading your threads Len...keep up the good work!!

I agree Len it has been bad lately, It's why I am not posting much , but I am sticking mostly in the good threads, and they are around, not many but there are some good ones. If everyone would just ignore the bad threads and the fighting we can go back to having more fun.

In answer to the question placed.....

yes....

ME.

Hi Len, Yes it does get a bit frustrating at times. But that's
the beauty of this site. We can post or move on. BTW I think
you are a very considerate man. Oh and also, I collect bears
of any type, except live ones of course.

I get so tired of all the bitching! Merry Bitch Session and Unhappy New Gripes! Too many bitching about something during the holidays!

Its too hot in here!
it too cold in here!
I wonder where she got that...Wal-Mart here anin't got nothing!
They stopped handling thread!
Will ya'll shut up so I can hear the kids unwrap there stuff!
ON AND ON AND ON!


I GO AND PET THE DOGS!

I'M SORRY! JUST BITCHIN!

The dogs need loving too!!

It does get tiresome, but you know CS goes through cycles like this.

The holidays are tough for alot of people on here. It is hard enough being alone, but during this time of year, it is rough.

It will settle down....until VALENTINE'S DAY....oh no!!

Well, to be rilly honest Rilly; I think you said what a lot of people were thinking. I for one would love to see more threads that have better more interesting content, normal everyday stuff, and leave the high school topics, on the back burner for a bit (i.e, sexual topics: do you do this, what do you like, anal sex 1, 2 & 3 etc.). Give it a rest. If I was out on a date with someone and all they talked about was sex and what they want and like, it'd be O-V-E-R... Don't even mention it to me on a first date. So why do it here? Get to know what makes your date tick. Seems the sex threads is what gets the most attention and when you really think about it.... what does that say about this group? Nobody has anything else to say or discuss?

I've started threads, probably what a lot of you consider boring, dumb, maybe even stupid, a few post to it and then poof; it drops like a rotten egg. Doesn't bother me, I just wonder why? I always come back to the same answer..... oh well.

Nothing wrong with some fun, but repeats get old fast.

Thanks Rilly for the post and your honesty. And to answer your original question? Yes Rilly, there's something good in this world....

You!

You have some enormously GOOD thoughts here, DoznEggs. Thank you. I just couldn't have said it any better.