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I would want to marry because I loved the guy and would want to share my life with them. I would not want to marry just to say that I'm married. I would not want to marry a man who was ignorant, rude, selfish, or mean.

I don't believe in the institution of marriage.

I mean, in my world, it makes no difference. If you love somebody, you love somebody and can be with her forever. I don't like the idea of some kind of justification for this.

I just don't see marriage as a stronger declaration of my love to a woman. I don't need no state or religion to acknowledge or confirm a relationship for me. That's how I stand on that. F*ck marriage.

This is what makes Sweden awesome to live in. The women can really care less about marriage.

Not.....

Once was more then enough.....

Single and happy to remain so...

Hey
It can be meaningless for you, but I choose mariage for some reasons:

1. Formally show that I am in bound with a lady and I love her.
2. To show we are the same family and she enters my identification documents.
3. If one they I die, she will have my properties legally.
4. If I (or a man) is not faithful, then she can defend her rights and ask me why I did it when we are together?
5. As I trust her, then I will feel safe no one can get her while she's my wife and if one day she does not love me, then she can send me out of her identification documents (Birth certificate).
6. I am happy that in my country when a woman marry she has her own surname and I don't feel bad that she loses her own name for me.
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By all means you may believe in and follow whatever path you choose my friend, if it works for you......good.

Within the confines of my own family, my brother is such one person as yourself.....and I am extremely happy to see him, his wife and his children grow in harmony and happiness as they have done for all their life.

My very own now deceased parents were happily married for more then 65 years.....which is saying something.

So we are not saying that marriage is a bad thing or that it should be abolished.......we are saying it is not the only way things must be.

There are those, like myself, who do not choose to go that path. No need to justify that choice.

It just is so.

i marry because i am in love...kind of a security though,knowing we share one name and bringing kids into this world legitimately.if he does cheat on me i have the license to kill him or sue his sorry ass.

Rent may be?
Recession you know.














just joking, it would be for LOVE.

No problems sadegh You don't have to justify your stance to me, I respect your will to marry. I was not trying to pitch my philosophy towards marriage or glamorize it. I was just stating how I feel about it, I'm different...lol

Awesome wisdom as usual coming from my man Gozo!

You simply marry someone because you love them and want to spend the rest of your life with that person.

Yes, I marry her because I love her, but some body say you can live and love with out that name (marriage), I said those that showed I'd never change marriage with another choice.

the last word you said....

CHOICE........

Life is simple and uncomplicated!!

You marry because you are desperate!

You don't marry because you are smart

NOW...WASN'T THAT SIMPLE????

I tried marriage once. It didn't work out so well...

Cost me more to get divorced than it did to get married

Very well said.....

My thoughts: Marriage will not make you love your partner anymore than if you don't marry. It will not make you more faithful, loyal or true. A piece of paper can't do that. Your heart holds those keys. Marriage or not....? Never say never. For each person it's their choice to make.

Tried it twice. 11 years the first time, five the second. Both times I discovered that the woman I was married to wasn't the woman I thought I was marrying.
A professor of mine once said "you cannot be with someone who did not have similar childhood as your own" the priorities, morals, work ethic, child raising philosophy, marital philosophy etc will be at least somewhat different. All of those things are basic human characteristics that cannot be changed in most people. I have found that to be true, not only in my two failed marriages, but in women I've dated. The problem for me is that it's incredibly difficult to find a woman who was raised in a fairly strict, two active parent, Southern Baptist home.
Woe is me..... lol

I married my husband so i could take it all away from him

come on why do people marry..well speaking for myself..

Love...i want to be with my Husband till my dying breath..

I want to learn/grow with him...he can teach me so much..

I want a Family with him...which we have..but want more..

I want our name to carry on when we are gone