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Yeah thats kind of where I'm leaning I think.. everything fits.
I'm just scared of the boredom factor.. (which might NOT actually happen)... But I do think its a safer ride.



Anyhoooo.. I am keeping my options open for now.. .

hahah!! I have been thinking that too!

The fact that I´m the one who usually hits the cave first, has a funny way of creating a role reversal with some men and they wind up doing the pushing... if only they would understand their own behaviour, they would have a lot more success...

Construct a double stable and ride them both....

I may.. (or may not).. over a longggg time.. already done that..

and Horse 2.. is a MUCH better ride.

Yes, I go quiet...

Deathly, not in a strop, I do not do strops, but certainly, I go quiet...

Lady's do not strop..

Lady's do not argue with their man.. not ever.. In fact.. Lady's will refuse to argue

She will say.. 'I do not want to argue with you.. you are a man.. you were born to win.. you will always win our arguments, so I will not argue with you, save that for your friends'

Lady's let their men know they have pissed them off and leave it at that.

It's called Blind siding.. and getting your own way

Got my own way of sorting out such situations....

just flash your Visa...whistle...and shout....


SHOPPING........

works miracles...

hahaha YES!!.. that would work like a charm!

You have it sussed

Indeed, gorgeous one.

PPV and I had a little play scene the other night, he wanted topretend that we were pissed off with each other...

I just laughed, alot.

Another friend of mine says, 'We are due an argument'

God I hate that, not a bloody appointment that you make.

Tuesday 13th January - Row with partner.

See, you are genderising there.

I hate shopping.

So, how would you handle me?

I remember reading a little something that outlined a situation...

The boyfriend came over for dinner, but was a bit quiet and not very cheery... was responding with one word answers to questions and not his usual self. The girlfriend started thinking... he´s getting bored with me... he´s trying to find a way to end things.

The night went on and he seemed to become more and more withdrawn and moody... she became more and more upset wondering what she had done that had him so upset...

Finally she couldn´t stand it any more... she sat down next to him and said "I just want to know why... I thought things were going so well between us... why do you want out?"

He looked at her in shock and said "What the hell are you talking about... I´m angry that my team lost the match today"

It´s not always about us...

hhhhhhmmmmm.....figured it out some years back.....

very little difference between pets and women really.....

lots of attention.......

lots of cuddles....

and the occasional bone with some meat on it....

Would a couple of tickets for the New Year's concert in Vienna and a bunch of red roses do the trick?

hahaha!

I absolute haaaate arguing.

I have to admit.. I have been using that 'I'm not arguing with you' speech a few times now.. and it works brilliantly.

I have also got my head around SAYING when something is wrong..

Instead of doing what I would normally do.. (and MANY women do)..

'Nothing.. nothing is the matter.. I'm fine' (liar liar)

(actually no.. I'm friggin furious at you!!)

I have learned to say.. 'Actually no.. I'm not okay.. When you said/did blab blah.. it really hurt my feelings/upset me'

(then say no more)

and just WATCH! what happens.

Brilliant J.

I love it. A typical example of how women think it is all about them.

PPV has these quiet moments, in the mornings, not grumpy, just quiet...

Then he comes to life, and I say, 'So quiet time is over now'

Exactly..

hahahah!

Hopefully more than occasional

Yes, I am not a confrontational person, in fact, I am a walkover.

I just do not do it and then some women, say, how can you let him get away with that?

Previously, but I did, there is no point in getting to that point where each loses control, that is where the problems begn, manifest and completely get out of control.

If I have a problem, I will say, 'I want to talk to you, when you have no other commitments, work or people or anything' Give him the choice, of when it is a suitable time...