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Claayer Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Sommerauer71: Yes, I am not a confrontational person, in fact, I am a walkover.

I just do not do it and then some women, say, how can you let him get away with that?

Previously, but I did, there is no point in getting to that point where each loses control, that is where the problems begn, manifest and completely get out of control.

If I have a problem, I will say, 'I want to talk to you, when you have no other commitments, work or people or anything' Give him the choice, of when it is a suitable time...


Yep..

and for added clout.. (Ooomph!)... a quick strettccchh.. of your arms.. *Boob attention*... just to make sure you have his full attention before you start to speak.. giggle
Claayer Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
and hopefully anyone I may meet in the future is not reading what I am saying.. laugh



Sommerauer71 Salzburg, Salzburg Austria
Claayer: and hopefully anyone I may meet in the future is not reading what I am saying..


Lol.

It will make you more endearing, I mean come on Claire...

You are the pin up of CS...

Claayer Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Sommerauer71: Lol.

It will make you more endearing, I mean come on Claire...

You are the pin up of CS...



rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing I wish!

I have the boobs for the 'Are you listening to what I am saying' though. laugh



Sommerauer71 Salzburg, Salzburg Austria
Claayer: I wish!

I have the boobs for the 'Are you listening to what I am saying' though.


Oh and so much more Claire, so much more...

Men adore you...

Claayer Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Sommerauer71: Oh and so much more Claire, so much more...

Men adore you...


ha! here maybe... because they haven't MET me.. devil
jbibiza Ibiza, Islas Baleares Spain
Claayer: hahaha!

I absolute haaaate arguing.

I have to admit.. I have been using that 'I'm not arguing with you' speech a few times now.. and it works brilliantly.

I have also got my head around SAYING when something is wrong..

Instead of doing what I would normally do.. (and MANY women do)..

'Nothing.. nothing is the matter.. I'm fine' (liar liar)

(actually no.. I'm friggin furious at you!!)

I have learned to say.. 'Actually no.. I'm not okay.. When you said/did blab blah.. it really hurt my feelings/upset me'

(then say no more)

and just WATCH! what happens.


A glass or two of wine over what I should have drunk can, on occasion, bring out the "illogical woman" in me...

I remember a night with the lovely Italian boyfriend from my past... we had been out with friends and wound up in a dance club and had a couple too many, I got angry with him over something stupid, on the way home he kept asking me what was wrong and I replied "nothing" in the manner that let him know it was something... but being in irrational female mode, expected him to do that "mind reader" trick...laugh

We got home, undressed and popped into bed where I immediately turned my back on him to sulk... expecting him to coerce me into telling him what was wrong. There was silence... then snoring.

I completely lost the plot, got out of bed, went to the kitchen, filled a glass with water and proceeded to chuck the contents over his snoring form...laugh

Can we just say that all hell broke loose...

We did manage to talk and work things out... but wound up sleeping on the couch together as the bed was soaked!laugh
gozoman2 Xaghra, Gozo Malta
Claayer: I wish!

I have the boobs for the 'Are you listening to what I am saying' though.


checked out the boob issue on your profile...

concord......

roll eyes
Claayer Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
jbibiza: A glass or two of wine over what I should have drunk can, on occasion, bring out the "illogical woman" in me...

I remember a night with the lovely Italian boyfriend from my past... we had been out with friends and wound up in a dance club and had a couple too many, I got angry with him over something stupid, on the way home he kept asking me what was wrong and I replied "nothing" in the manner that let him know it was something... but being in irrational female mode, expected him to do that "mind reader" trick...

We got home, undressed and popped into bed where I immediately turned my back on him to sulk... expecting him to coerce me into telling him what was wrong. There was silence... then snoring.

I completely lost the plot, got out of bed, went to the kitchen, filled a glass with water and proceeded to chuck the contents over his snoring form...

Can we just say that all hell broke loose...

We did manage to talk and work things out... but wound up sleeping on the couch together as the bed was soaked!



rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

Yeah thats the more usual scenario.. giggle

I do try to keep my mouth shut if ive had one too many.. but it happens doesn't it?.. LOL.. sometimes its just too much being a 'Lady'

laugh roll eyes
Claayer Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
gozoman2: checked out the boob issue on your profile...

concord......


Concord?? confused
voyager007 Khober Saudi Arabia
mmmmmmmmm.....

let me put it this way OK,,,

in most cases, men understand each other but don't understands women so,,,confused men think that women are complected while they are not.

the same story apply for women too;

in most cases,
women understand each other but don't understands men so,,,confused women think that men are complected while they are not.

so, simply put why does every one (mAn/womAn) need to understand everybody else (mEn/WomEn)????dunno

all you need is to understand the only person in front of you not spending your time understanding the entire group because there is no universal manual for humanity men and women alike.

even more, try to understand the other person instead of spending all the time explaining your self.

PS: think of a relation as one piece of thread or hair that connects two individuals and if one of them is pulling the other must release or it will be broken, as well, if one is releasing the other one must pull to keep the relation intact or it will be lost.


cheers


peace
onecoffee sydney, New South Wales Australia
We are uncomplicated because "we complete you" (girls)
Plus we do these nudie runs around the house with dangly bits.
Yes its all about the nudie runs banana
5 pairs of shoes????? must be a gay dude!!!!!
I'm Australian Sorry!!
gozoman2 Xaghra, Gozo Malta
Claayer: Concord??


maybe be spelt wrong......another way of saying:

agree with your line of thought entirely.....

head banger
gozoman2 Xaghra, Gozo Malta
Aaaaaahhhh...reinforcement is finally here......

head banger



Sommerauer71 Salzburg, Salzburg Austria
jbibiza: A glass or two of wine over what I should have drunk can, on occasion, bring out the "illogical woman" in me...

I remember a night with the lovely Italian boyfriend from my past... we had been out with friends and wound up in a dance club and had a couple too many, I got angry with him over something stupid, on the way home he kept asking me what was wrong and I replied "nothing" in the manner that let him know it was something... but being in irrational female mode, expected him to do that "mind reader" trick...

We got home, undressed and popped into bed where I immediately turned my back on him to sulk... expecting him to coerce me into telling him what was wrong. There was silence... then snoring.

I completely lost the plot, got out of bed, went to the kitchen, filled a glass with water and proceeded to chuck the contents over his snoring form...

Can we just say that all hell broke loose...

We did manage to talk and work things out... but wound up sleeping on the couch together as the bed was soaked!


Oh I have behaved like that J, when my children were 5 and 6.

My ex husband was at his football match and said he would be home at 1pm.

5pm, arrived, Sommer, steaming in the kitchen, I fored the children up, plated up his meal, told the children

'Lets go and find Daddy'

'yes, mummy, lets'

Bundled kids, food and me into the car, drove to the pub, kids were chanting 'daddy, daddy, we love you, we want to see you'

I had them singing in the car on the way there.

Walked in, saw him surrounded by his friends, placed his meal in front of him, told him'Darling, the children were missing you so much, I jsut had to bring them to you'

Picked up my car keys kissed the children bye, told them to have a wonderful time with Daddy and marched out.

LOL - Those were the days...
Claayer Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
gozoman2: maybe be spelt wrong......another way of saying:

agree with your line of thought entirely.....


Ohh yep.. concur.. (Concord was the big FAST Transatlantic plane)



Sommerauer71 Salzburg, Salzburg Austria
onecoffee: We are uncomplicated because "we complete you" (girls)
Plus we do these nudie runs around the house with dangly bits.
Yes its all about the nudie runs
5 pairs of shoes????? must be a gay dude!!!!!
I'm Australian Sorry!!


Oh, more men...

You are in Australia, shoes are not necessary there...

Flip flops? I bet you have more than five pairs...

Hello onecoffee!
Claayer Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Sommerauer71: Oh I have behaved like that J, when my children were 5 and 6.

My ex husband was at his football match and said he would be home at 1pm.

5pm, arrived, Sommer, steaming in the kitchen, I fored the children up, plated up his meal, told the children

'Lets go and find Daddy'

'yes, mummy, lets'

Bundled kids, food and me into the car, drove to the pub, kids were chanting 'daddy, daddy, we love you, we want to see you'

I had them singing in the car on the way there.

Walked in, saw him surrounded by his friends, placed his meal in front of him, told him'Darling, the children were missing you so much, I jsut had to bring them to you'

Picked up my car keys kissed the children bye, told them to have a wonderful time with Daddy and marched out.

LOL - Those were the days...



rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
jbibiza Ibiza, Islas Baleares Spain
Claayer: Yeah thats the more usual scenario..

I do try to keep my mouth shut if ive had one too many.. but it happens doesn't it?.. LOL.. sometimes its just too much being a 'Lady'


I´m always ashamed when I react this way... that´s why it happens rarely... fortunately we both had a good sense of humour and were able to laugh about it after....laugh



Sommerauer71 Salzburg, Salzburg Austria
gozoman2: Aaaaaahhhh...reinforcement is finally here......


Oh this is great.
In the wimmen thread, wimmen can hold their own..

The men thread, you have to back up...





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