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You have something that will always make you glow and that is your youth.
Stay focus in your search do not go for anything less you think you deserve. Have confident in yourself and do not let your self-esteem go down.
Being a Mom is a blessing and men should see that with good eyes.
You are entitled to find happiness but is up to you to make the right choices.
Look around you; it does not have to be in a dating site where you find that
Someone. Maybe some day you will bump into somebody or just have crossed eyes with a person and it all starts there. Your other half is out there, hang in there you will find him.

You'll be okay. Life goes on and it's never as bad as one thinks it is.

How you view yourself, is how others will view you. If you think you are not sexy and worth nothing, others will see you that way. If you think and act sexy and confident, others will treat you that way. If you are not happy about the way you look, change it. Learn more about the "Law of Attraction". Through the power of positive thinking, you can get what you want.

Is it just me? Ok seriously what is with all the woe is me threads? I am here to find friends and maybe even a date or a relationship. If you have no self confidence then you will never find the right person, or if you do you will push them away.

Let me say this one thing...WE ALL have something wrong with ourselves (in our own eyes) we have all been through something that someone else hasn't been through, etc etc etc. The thing is ...What are you going to do about it? Pull yourself up by your boot straps and learn from your past!

By smashing personality you don't mean you like smashing dishes and furniture, right? 'cause that might be the problem.

well there let me paint a different side of this picture. i 4 one replied to u expressing a interest in getting to no u n while u did respond n i appriciate that, i think i was written off because i may not be up to a certain standard addmittedly there is a age gap there but hey a gr8 guy is a gr8 guy no matter what his age

Everyone likes attention, but would you rather have 5000 dirtbags chasing you around or that 1 perfect someone who is your other half that completes and compliments you? Don't let impatience be your downfall. Some people are turned off by kids especially when they are not theirs biologically, and others would kill to be the "new Dad."

Keep a joy journel......you just had a baby write down positive things in it,right now its your child,something new everyday,then when you stress,pull that book out and read something ,it will but a smile on your face,think positive,if you donot meet Mr Right,you might make alot of new friends here....if you do meet Mr Right,ask him if he has a Brother LOL keep your chin up sweetie ,rememeber you have a little bundle of joy,that some of us would die for,I know I would, your blessed in that department.................count your blessings

I thought I was your little bundle of joy!!!

I thought I was your little bundle of joy!!![/qu You are my friend you are!

Hi,it whats comes from the 'Heart and soul' that counts,stay strong and be true to yourself,hold your head up straight and strong,and never,ever stop believing in 'You',A very happy New Year to you,and all the best for 2009. John Dutchie: bouquet:

I think if each person on this CS web site was honest and wrote a similar Thread we probably all feel this way. It will change once you find your Mr. Right.

Don't worry about it. If honesty were a by word as it should be, you are cool in my book. Just live your life as best you can and let things come to you. I am certain mister right is out there for you.

Some guys are too conformist with their standards as to what they think is hot. I think you're really hot, I don't mind kids, and from what you've said of your self, you seem to have a great personality. Just remember if those guys were so stuck up over you not being a scrawny twig and having kids then you probably don't want to be with them anyways. Most guys are shallow and not worthless but this forum should prove that there are a few worthwhile men still out there. But seriously... good luck finding them... Too bad you live in Australia...

OK'
I checked you out...
I think your attractive, I also thought you are sexy.
Also there are plenty of guys that have kids or are single dads
and don't mind that you have a kid.
Just be your self, I bet you have a great personality and someone will see it and realize your a good catch!

Take a hug from the big hugger girl