Apostophe: Joined because a cousin of mine is a member and spends her life on c.s. - so i thought let's have a looky and see and here i am - can't get away from the damn thing myself now!
I've been single for ten years - not for lack of opportunity, from choice.
Considered getting a web cam when i was still a babe in the woods here - no way Jose!
Yeah, that choice factor, that's me too. People can't believe me, they think i'm retired, frustrated or stuff like that!

Doing some self organisation, it's the a period where you might consider changing the less positive things about you and who knows change taste for the better...