dinncat: they wounder in their little world and they tend to miss the opportunity and then they go for the quick fix and blame the man why don't they get into the objective have a smoke and get into the improvements instead of wondering before hands :confused
I will take the time I need and am comfortable with...it's not a race...it's about finding the right man for me....How do you find out if you love someone OR of they are the right person for you if you don't get to know them first????
How do you have a relationship...if you can't first develop a friendship?????
You're right it's not about the quick fix....it's about building and nurturing a friendship into a loving relationship...and that is not something that happens overnight or in a matter of weeks...that takes time....