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No, it's a machoism problem...and it's best then to get rid of him. Trust me. That's a need to dominate, and you're best finding someone else.

a guy told me it's because some girls play hard to get and with them no really does mean yes.

what did she say?

well pay no heed to that ,

it is simply not true !

I'll repeat...machoism, and arrogance. Apparently, a lot of men just honestly can't believe a woman means "no" when she says it.

Or....the guy might need a hearing aid..

Or an all expense paid vacation in state prison.

Ha ha. I agree! State prison sounds good. Lol for real. If I say no and they try again I think ok well maybe they'll think i'm serious the second time... But no. I can say it ten times and they still try! Tards! Definitely not a game of hard to get.. More or a game do, get off me!

Oops got excited there, I mean a game of get off me.. Wow way to ruin that one kim!

These days, a guy realizes no means no. If he doesn't listen to you and tries to go further, get away from him and do call the police.

As long as she realizes no means no too...

They don't think that!






SOMETIMES....women give off mixed signals!! Thet are confusing.

The first time my partner and I were intimate, things were getting pretty warm, when she said no. So I backed away. Then she invited me to lay down "and rest" on her bed.


Pretty soon we were doing the deed. So does no always mean no?? NO!

There was a time when I was a club DJ...so pretty public.....and therefore also fodder for try ons by gay guys.

Never had any problems with being gay, but not my cup of tea. So I used tell them no nicely the first time. The second time I just gave them a look. The third time I brought them down with a kick in the balls.

Worked for gays, should work for hetro too I guess.

*makes mental note* nicely no first, stern look second, kick in the naughties third.... Got it! Sounds good to me. Any ladies want a copy?

psssst.....there's a ten percent commission on any proceeds.....

No thanks ,

will stick to a firm no,

and if I'm not heard ,there problem

Hey laidi.....you're cutting my chances of turning a buck here....

well I personally think that they don't wanna believe that they are being rejected. It is embarrassing on their part. Therefore, they try again. Or they are hoping that within the next 3 seconds you'll change your mind and give in.

They learn "No means yes" in their early lives. Our Western mainstream religions teach us that sex is "dirty and vulgar" and we should "resist temptation". Meanwhile our mainstream capitalistic media market sex aggressively. So our teenagers brimming with testosterone (yes ladies, girls have it too) and new bits on their bodies wnat to play.

This leads to confusion. The only possible answer is that if a girl who really wants to play denies this, she will be a "good girl" ... and eventually she (and he) know she will give in.

It's a win-win situation. the girls get to believe they are good, and everybody gives in to temptation eventually don't they? Otherwise they would join a convent. The boys get to pursue and finally conquer. What fun would it be if you asked. "Wanna phuk?" and the object of your desires said. "Yep, OK. Gotta blanket?" The apple that has to be climbed for is always sweeter. And girls know this fom an early age.

That good ladies (and I use that in it's broadest sense) is why "No" sometimes ... OFTEN, means "yes."

However, "PHUK OFF YOU GREAZY LITTLE TURD! I wouldn't get naked with you if my clothes were on fire." Now THAT means "NO!"