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lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
TheEnglishman: Well there's an interesting way of squirming out of a bad situation.

Everyone that knows you?????

This is an open forum to the World,,,you know,,the entire planet,,a clue,,TWO BILLION people.

Are they all supposed to know you and your whimsicle ways??

Let the reindeer fertilise Finland,,you don't have help.

You owe that guy an appology,,,you know it,,so have the courage to do it.


I will NOT apologise to him, and i am dying to see you make me. Funny how you only appear in these forums to 'put people into their places'. Did you count the two billion people on the site, or are you counting sperm? Take your anger out on someone your own age, as any response to what i said in the 'full mast' post, is null, if anyone took it seriously.

I asked the guy to explain himself, he didn't. He had just previously made a childish comment to me on another thread, right before he did here ( it wasn't nice), so you see, sir, you don't know everything. He's been following me around, making weird comments.





Make me apologise, you big bully, then report me to the mods, if i did something wrong.
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livinglarge in a good place , Kildare Ireland
lusciousmile: I will NOT apologise to him, and i am dying to see you make me. Funny how you only appear in these forums to 'put people into their places'. Did you count the two billion people on the site, or are you counting sperm? Take your anger out on someone your own age, as any response to what i said in the 'full mast' post, is null, if anyone took it seriously.

I asked the guy to explain himself, he didn't. He had just previously made a childish comment to me on another thread, right before he did here ( it wasn't nice), so you see, sir, you don't know everything. He's been following me around, making weird comments.Make me apologise, you big bully, then report me to the mods, if i did something wrong.


walk away thumbs up

not worth your time thumbs up
Gowanheart GULFPORT, Mississippi USA
Darkhorseman is clearly the most intelligent author of posts hereon. I love everything you write! A fan I am....



lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
livinglarge: walk away

not worth your time



This guy only pops up to cause strife, and that's why he's shocked i say 'people who know me'.

A no, still means a no. It will mean always be like that.

Sexual frustration much.

doh grin



lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
lusciousmile: This guy only pops up to cause strife, and that's why he's shocked i say 'people who know me'.

A no, still means a no. It will mean always be like that.

Sexual frustration much.



professor



livinglarge in a good place , Kildare Ireland
lusciousmile: This guy only pops up to cause strife, and that's why he's shocked i say 'people who know me'.

A no, still means a no. It will mean always be like that.

Sexual frustration much.


don't mind him,

he just wants to rile you

and get your attention bouquet



Indyfella indianapolis, Indiana USA
gozoman2: Tend to agree with this....said so earlier on...



1: No thank you
2: Nasty look
3: Kick him in the balls



1 and 2 yes
3 NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO laugh



lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
livinglarge: don't mind him,

he just wants to rile you

and get your attention



hug
dcj22 Somewhere, Kansas USA
lusciousmile: A lot of angry men on this thread. People who know me, know the 'full mast' guy was a joke! It would be obvious to them. Get it? A joke! I was not talking of some random guy at the public railway station, at full mast, behind his pants, or you mister!Why would i say it was a joke, if it wasn't? Pick on someone else!

Games my black a**!



Exactly sweetie. comfort



highlander_5 springfield, Pennsylvania USA
what was the question?
dinncat limerick, Limerick Ireland
it only happens with me with blond babes but sometimes with others just in case they my be blonds but on a serious note ((to be sure ))could it not be possible that something could have diluted your thoughts ((assurance)) innocent



lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
dcj22: Exactly sweetie.


Exactly, Dana. tongue doh


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Dawn7z SALEM OR,DENVER CO, Oregon USA
In response to: I'm just curious why when out with a guy and he tries things with you that you don't want to do and you say no, why is it they almost immediately try again?? Is this a short term memory problem?


I believe some do not register the word no coming out of a woman's lips so it means ask again.dunno rolling on the floor laughing



hrt4lse Redding, California USA
Darkhorseman: However, "PHUK OFF YOU GREAZY LITTLE TURD! I wouldn't get naked with you if my clothes were on fire." Now THAT means "NO!"


I like that one laugh



hrt4lse Redding, California USA
highlander_5: what was the question?


My place or yours?

love laugh
kurt37 manitowoc, Wisconsin USA
no most men think with there penis, i know i do, but beleive it or not i respect women.



FreedomLover Everett, Washington USA
gozoman2: Tend to agree with this....said so earlier on...



1: No thank you
2: Nasty look
3: Kick him in the balls


That has usually been my response, except for number 3. I usually get far away as possible. It does work. Women do give mixed messages, so I try not to be too hard on guys who don't seem to get it.




FreedomLover Everett, Washington USA
Well there's an interesting way of squirming out of a bad situation.

Everyone that knows you?????

This is an open forum to the World,,,you know,,the entire planet,,a clue,,TWO BILLION people.

What did you do with the other four billion people? uh oh



FreedomLover Everett, Washington USA
Darkhorseman: Oh yes, we men should all be tested ... Tested to distruction is best. I have always wondered why women who would know better than to poke dogs with a stick because one will eventually bite them don't know better than to (figuratively speaking) poke a much more dangerous animal - men.

If you have got to the point where you HAVE to say "NO!" I would say your credibility is approaching zero anyway.
Hint 1. When he goes to put his arm around you say -
a. I am not ready to go into a romantic relationship. If he gets defensive, offensive or plan repulsive say, "With anybody at this time."
b. If he won't take is arm away from you say, "I have made my feelings on physical contact with you clear. Please remove your arm."
c. If he still won't remove his arm say, "What you are doing constitutes physical assault and is a crime. Remove your arm now and leave." (this is a fact in any Western democracy).
d. If he doesn't leave immediately he is commiting the further crime of trespass.

However, if you are both sitting on the couch, his pants are unzipped, you bra is pushed out of the way and your panties are around your knees ... then "No" probably doesn't have the same credibility as above. But worse than that for you ... if you really mean "NO" ... is that the prosecutor is going to have a really difficult time convincing the jury that you actually did mean "NO".

Trust me on two things -
1. Me are generally physically stronger than women are. Helen Ready told lies. You should have headed him off LONG before the "pass".
2. While prosecutors love to try rape cases where there is clear evidence of forced sexual intercourse, they hate trying cases where clothes were alread on the floor and the word "NO" suddenly dropped into the room.All of the above was written in the sincere hope that trauma will be avioded by all.


I mostly agree with this, but a person has a right to say no anytime. I had an experience in which we were both undressed and I had the comdom ready, but he didn't want to use it, so I started to get dressed again, but then he changed his mind. I guess we should have talked about this before things got too heated up, but neither of us talked about it.I wasn't on birth control, so this would have been the only form of protection. Given that women are usually left holding the bag, I feel I had right to say no.
maybesoon brisbane, Queensland Australia
lusciousmile: I will NOT apologise to him, and i am dying to see you make me. Funny how you only appear in these forums to 'put people into their places'. Did you count the two billion people on the site, or are you counting sperm? Take your anger out on someone your own age, as any response to what i said in the 'full mast' post, is null, if anyone took it seriously.

I asked the guy to explain himself, he didn't. He had just previously made a childish comment to me on another thread, right before he did here ( it wasn't nice), so you see, sir, you don't know everything. He's been following me around, making weird comments.Make me apologise, you big bully, then report me to the mods, if i did something wrong.


I have listen, and i have re read the comments here, there is nothin that states, I am stalking you, nor would I, so please dont flatter yourself, your ego stands a mile!!!!

and now you judge me cause you looked at my profile, and im scary as LL also agreed with you...well im so sorry, that i cant please everyone all of the time....

and the reason there is another remark on another forum just goes to show you, that we are interested in the same topic's or is it, YOU thats stalking me!!!

thats it, so once again!!! im not stalking you, I think you have to have a liking to someone to stalk them, and you dont rate it with me, sorry!!!!head banger banana applause




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