why do guys think no means yes??

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HJFinAZ Sun CIty, Arizona USA
SweetKim: I'm just curious why when out with a guy and he tries things with you that you don't want to do and you say no, why is it they almost immediately try again?? Is this a short term memory problem?


No, no short term memory problem.. We just want to be sure you know what you are talking about..grin

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jvaski south lake tahoe, California USA
mylifewithu: I think the dark would be safer


Who's hand touched me there ? uh oh
HJFinAZ Sun CIty, Arizona USA
livinglarge: well pay no heed to that ,

it is simply not true !


Are you absolutely positive????confused
HJFinAZ Sun CIty, Arizona USA
SweetKim: Oops got excited there, I mean a game of get off me.. Wow way to ruin that one kim!


We know what you really meant!!professor See, I told you so..devil

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mylifewithu Springfield, Missouri USA
jvaski: Who's hand touched me there ?
It's dark so I can't tell who did professor rolling on the floor laughing



TroyBoy Sunderland, Maryland USA
....hey there....thanks LS ---- love your posts --- they're a great read....

Best,

T



lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
TroyBoy: ....hey there....thanks LS ---- love your posts --- they're a great read....

Best,

T



Thank you, but, just wait till you read them all!


Lela, warn him, tie him up, hide him, anything!


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livinglarge in a good place , Kildare Ireland
HJFinAZ: Are you absolutely positive????


yes I am Patrick thumbs up



livinglarge in a good place , Kildare Ireland
gozoman2: Hey laidi.....you're cutting my chances of turning a buck here....


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HJFinAZ Sun CIty, Arizona USA
livinglarge: yes I am Patrick


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SweetKim neosho, Missouri USA
HJFinAZ: We know what you really meant!! See, I told you so..
you're right! I don't know what i'm talking about.... Ever lol



Ridingrick Arcadia, California USA
I was told by the girl who got my cherry that "no" meant yes. When I first started going for it she said no and I stopped. she looked at me funny and asked why I stopped. I told "you just said to" she then went on to say that a girl has to so not to feel slutty so says no, but dont mean it. I have heard it before but this time it had come straight from the girls mouth.

I have never since then pushed it with any woman, but I would like to think I do not make passes at a woman unless the vibs are right for her to be open to it to begin with. Probably missed a couple chances but I would feel dreadful if some gal just gave in and didn't do it out of her own desire for me.



Marseilles Somewhere, Indiana USA
SweetKim: I'm just curious why when out with a guy and he tries things with you that you don't want to do and you say no, why is it they almost immediately try again?? Is this a short term memory problem?


I really couldn't tell you. I mean I myself understand the meaning of the word "no" but as far as speaking for other guys I couldn't say.
Maybe it's the product of public school or the way they were raised? It might also be because they watch too much TV or they listen to their stupid friends?

Did you ever find out what was his problem in not understanding it? Did you ask?

I'm curious about it too.
If and when you do find out, let me know okay? I always try to learn something new everyday.

Thanks! wave
coca20 paris, Lajas Puerto Rico
i dont know babe ?
why do girls think broke means means rich ?
i guess the world will never know ...confused



alishia townsville, Queensland Australia
confused no means no or do you have to say dont loudlydoh



alishia townsville, Queensland Australia
dont very loudly works with the guys that try again and again...peace hug and dont be so pushy you men if a girl likes you she will make the first move.kiss



jampet wexford, Westmeath Ireland
Ridingrick: I was told by the girl who got my cherry that "no" meant yes. When I first started going for it she said no and I stopped. she looked at me funny and asked why I stopped. I told "you just said to" she then went on to say that a girl has to so not to feel slutty so says no, but dont mean it. I have heard it before but this time it had come straight from the girls mouth.

I have never since then pushed it with any woman, but I would like to think I do not make passes at a woman unless the vibs are right for her to be open to it to begin with. Probably missed a couple chances but I would feel dreadful if some gal just gave in and didn't do it out of her own desire for me.


sadly, i think this is true- and the way some women behave has made men confused as to what is really expected of them. For me No means No- and luckily i have never been with a man that didn't respect that.
tgwstw Cork, Cork Ireland
This has happened to me a few times.
I think it's cuz once the flow of blood goes south, the brain is operated from whatever naughty things their banana desires....

I don't think they actually realize how irritating and off putting it is.



Tater springfield, Illinois USA
no it is a hormone problem, and a reality problem for the women who really mean no....

Alot of woman may say no initially but with a little coaxes rubbing etc. there are willing, then they all say those same words

OOOOOHHHHHHHHHH I love it but, I hate you for this... blah blah blah

it is just because they don't want you to think they are easy...
(THIS IS ALOT OF WOMAN) I see it as pathetic....

but not all women are like this. Some mean no, usually a guys knows if she really means it or not and doesn't keep trying, but you do have those perverts out there, sad but true...

cheers
agman Eagle, Idaho USA
no and o o oooooo sound the same.




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