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Well I admit that I don't reply to every email or IM sent my way. I do try to send a flower back but sometimes frankly I am just on here for friends. Why should you get upset? You don't even know the woman that you are sending an email to? Unless you meet that person offline there is a certain unreality to it. I would suggest you keep flowering women and emailing and the ones who don't respond go on to the next. I am concerned that you say you get angry. Those women are strangers and may get tons of email or they simply may not be interested. Sorry if that sounds rude but it's the truth so find the one that is interested and keep your anger in check.

Look its good to talk,

no harm no fowl!!

take it easy ,

good thing will come,

you talked about self esteem ,good

work on that and you will get a much positive

outcome

the universe is plentiful,
never forget that

awe It happens to all of us. just let it roll off your shoulder and flower the next one.

maybe that was a wrong choice of words but im a good guy, i dont drink, do drugs, ive never hurt a woman and im always a gentleman, i am the one who gets dumped on.

We all get hurt in this life and none of us escapes it alive. Be more positive and learn to love yourself believe it or not your attitude has a lot to drawing or not drawing love in your life. People can smell self esteem issues a mile away and until you get a handle on those things and a handle on your view of women in general my guess is that you will continue to have big time romance issues. Just my opinion.

Women and men both get hurt it's human nature unfortunately. Lots of lonely people out there in spite of the net. Be realistic in the women you pursue if you are going after supermodel types and they aren't responding might want to try someone who is a babe but maybe a bit less babelicious. Be upfront with women and find those who are upfront with you if you go out on a date and the chic seems to be a user then run like hell. If she is a great person who cares for herself and others and you have commonalities, common values, things to talk about. Check your insecurities at the gate for the first date. Talk to the women and be positive.Just an idea.

Nobody is obligated to anybody! If they are not interested...move on! It's not a woman thing...it's about choice.

I had two women under thirty contact me by IM last week...I ignored them both. I am 58 years old...and felt silly even responmding to them....so I didn't!!

Take the hint! They are not interested in you

Oh you rejected my IM under the name Esmeralda when I was in my spam bot form now I am hurt.

Fantastic post Dawn..


Ermm he did lower his expectations though

he called me adorable

hha haaaa Dawn

There is no lowering of expectations there you are adorable so don't you start it now with the self esteem woman. Don't make me go straight up goofy on you now.

Oohhhh Essie!! How could I have been so foolish

yessum

haaahaaa ,

serves you right for being ageist

i will say this much this is at the very least entertaing ,lol

Kurt...you're not the only one who doesn't get responses to messages sent out. Happens to the women too...and we get just as frustrated about it. I end up wondering if the person I've messaged is even really seriously looking. There's been a few times when I've sent a nice email and then notice something a few days or weeks later & send another message commenting on the change or new comment in their profile...THEN I get an answer back in defense of what they changed or said....Cracks me up...the niceness didn't get them, but the sarcasm did

I also wonder if the person hasn't been on for months. Just chat this mantra....

It's no big deal

Get over it

It doesn't matter

I do that alot

By putting yourself out there, you should expect rejection. Everyone experiences it. That's life.

I don't feel obligated to answer emails if they are not of interest to me. Just like when I get junk mail, I toss it..same concept really.

You probably just need to get over it and understand that b*tching and moaning isn't going to get you anymore responses, or it will get you pity ones, not true ones.

It takes time to build friendships, and sometimes even attractions...good luck to you patience is the key

Yeah for sure. Cuz men always answer women's emails and flowers. Plus there's nothing like love by force. Pull up your big girl panties and get over yourself.

Aren't we all Kurt........... you're gonna have to realize that alot of the women on this site are already hooked-up , and many of the others are indifferent and just wanna talk to each other.

Nice John thanks for that. A lot of women on this site talk to a lot of different people men and women.