cristina: Just like any other "pitty me" thread and a bit contradictory from scratch to be honest if they want to hear JUST "yes"! Then we are repsonsibles for them cutting their vain if we say "NO".They need to read more books and learn more about life, it's not about self-esteem per se!
Well of course they do Cris...
But that is what happens with people with low self esteem, they need constant approval and that is why it is hard to love people with low self esteem, it is draining and tedious.
People say that people need to love themselves, and to some degree I agree with that, but I think it more acceptance, accepting whp we are and that the people that do love us, love us, because of who we are.
If a person asks me, if they look good, then I will tell what I see.
It is not the message sometimes, it is the deliverance.
In my experience alone. Just to make that clear.