If you don't like someone?

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ariesgirl003 Bangin, New Jersey USA
If someone emails you and you do not like them do you just...not answer back or do you answer back and tell them?dunno



JacobGrimm Blah blah, Ontario Canada
ariesgirl003: If someone emails you and you do not like them do you just...not answer back or do you answer back and tell them?


no answer. I don't always answer the phone either. cool
mbcasey North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA
ariesgirl003: If someone emails you and you do not like them do you just...not answer back or do you answer back and tell them?


Happy New Year!!

I would answer back and subtly tell them.
ariesgirl003 Bangin, New Jersey USA
thats a good game plan...lol
JacobGrimm: no answer. I don't always answer the phone either.



rusty_knight Gozo, Gozo Malta
ariesgirl003: If someone emails you and you do not like them do you just...not answer back or do you answer back and tell them?


If they write and say that they find your profile 'really interesting' and obviously haven't noticed that you're not 'free' then I ignore the email as totally insincere.......... grin
Sommerauer71 Hallein, Salzburg Austria
ariesgirl003: If someone emails you and you do not like them do you just...not answer back or do you answer back and tell them?


Well it depends, it is hard to tell if i like a person from one email.

But I usually do come out with it.

Here, I say, stay away from me, this place is big enough for the both of us and it is.

If you are having problems, report them and block them.

ariesgirl003 Bangin, New Jersey USA
Hey Mc! How are you? Happy new year to you too. I just feel bad not answering back



JacobGrimm Blah blah, Ontario Canada
ariesgirl003: thats a good game plan...lol


.. thumbs up
ariesgirl003 Bangin, New Jersey USA
I am free I'm just not cheap!...lol
rusty_knight: If they write and say that they find your profile 'really interesting' and obviously haven't noticed that you're not 'free' then I ignore the email as totally insincere..........
DoznEggs Any town, New Jersey USA
The only time I don't answer is when the note or flower is written in a perverted manner.

Otherwise, I always answer with a response that will not, hopefully, cause hurt feelings.
ariesgirl003 Bangin, New Jersey USA
I guess looks don't pull you in at first?
Sommerauer71: Well it depends, it is hard to tell if i like a person from one email.

But I usually do come out with it.

Here, I say, stay away from me, this place is big enough for the both of us and it is.

If you are having problems, report them and block them.
ariesgirl003 Bangin, New Jersey USA
I do as well sometime I'm not sure what to write back or if I should at all
dazzling_dave Waynesboro, Virginia USA
Happy New Year girl. Good to see you again.
DoznEggs Any town, New Jersey USA
ariesgirl003: I do as well sometime I'm not sure what to write back or if I should at all


Sometimes a little white lie helps....

"Thanks for the flower, note or whatever, I'm currently persuing a relationship". "Best of luck in your search".



BarrenPneuma Golden Staircase, Ontario Canada
ariesgirl003: If someone emails you and you do not like them do you just...not answer back or do you answer back and tell them?


I cannot say from one email whether or not I like or dislike someone so to that I will always answer.
There is no harm done in responding and much more harm to share in outright rejecting someone without reason.
For myself I am not looking for anything beyond communication here so it is perhaps easier to discern this but I cannot see how sharing a smile is such a bad thing. Lingering to expect more or a return really is not very proper, but once again a smile costs nothing and is its own reward.
If there is persistence in communication then I will quickly draw a line that has to be recognized and respected.
The only emails I do not respond to are those from the teeming hordes of scammers that abound. They are fairly easy to discern though as they never show up on the Who's Viewed me list and often go on about things that are distinctly not represented in my profile.
To each their own of course, as this is merely my personal opinion and way of dealing with this issue.bouquet
Sommerauer71 Hallein, Salzburg Austria
ariesgirl003: I guess looks don't pull you in at first?


No.

Usually how a person writes to me.

I do not lay too much on a picture.

Are you having problems? And are you talking about romantically when you say you do not like them?

I am not looking for any romance, so therefore, I ignore a mail, unless it is from a person I know.

ariesgirl003 Bangin, New Jersey USA
Whats up dave how have you been?
dazzling_dave: Happy New Year girl. Good to see you again.



Tater springfield, Illinois USA
Sometimes I do , sometimes I don't it all depends on how thought out the message was....

Also some people get more angry with you if you reply with a " thanks I enjoyed your message and best of luck to you, than they would of if you didn't respond at all... why???? but it happens
ariesgirl003 Bangin, New Jersey USA
I hear ya sometime you have to
DoznEggs: Sometimes a little white lie helps....

"Thanks for the flower, note or whatever, I'm currently persuing a relationship". "Best of luck in your search".
Conrad73 Lonesome Town Zurich, Zrich Switzerland
rusty_knight: If they write and say that they find your profile 'really interesting' and obviously haven't noticed that you're not 'free' then I ignore the email as totally insincere..........
Hey Rusty,hope the New One's going to treat you alright!wave




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