Justme4uok: I appreciate everyone's opionion.... I think by placing this information in a thread it helps people see what others are out there and what others are doing..... Now any othese options will work for most.... but making people feel at ease and comfortable, so you can see the real person is important....
Not many are willing to look outside there own local area.... but for the few of us that have opened up our geographical barriers this information is useful.
i, originally, came to this site for the purpose of meeting someone in my area....but, there is hardly anyone in my area...there are people in texas but, as i am sure all are aware, texas is a big @ss state

....but, this site has made me think of possibly meeting someone from afar {which would be better than meeting someone from abar

}...interresting thread....thanks dori