Is it only me that keeps meeting alot of easy women these days o

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wheresthepassion GLENDALE, Arizona USA

Wed Dec 31, 2008 1:54 PM CST : Is it only me that keeps meeting alot of easy women these days or what?

I have been pondering about this for quite some time now and it simply frustrates me how easy women are ready to give up their physical boundaries so quickly and get down to business. I wonder these days if women still believe in challenging a man and making him prove he is interested in more then just sex with them, before they take off the panties. I think of this also, if one is so easy to discuss sexual issues, share her body and etc. with a man, she barely knows, being me. Then I just can't imagine how easy the rest of the men out there have got it. Is that somethone I can respect and begin a trusting relationship with, I think not. Where is the class, has the media, movies, television and etc. changed every woman out there. Has the lack of fathers being in the household made every woman crave that male atention so much, they throw it at you. All these questions run through my mind. I just simply cannot fall in love, share my emotions and become intimate with a woman that does not make me wait. I thought women understood that when men have to work for something, whether it be a car, house or woman, they treat it with much more respect. Rather then when it is just freely given, we pretty much care less for it. I mean come on now, it's pretty much simple logic there. I have brought this up before so I must clarify. I am talking about women that men approach. I am talking about women that are in decent shape and tend to influence the lust of a mans eyes. Anyhow, just felt like throwing my feelings, thoughts and emotions out on a forum. If you want to comment, go for it, I would love to see what you have to say. Also remember, this is just a writing of my opinion, my personal life and experiences. Take it easy and stay classy!

arabella Near Farmington, Maine USA

Wed Dec 31, 2008 1:57 PM CST : Is it only me that keeps meeting alot of easy women these days or what?

Obviously you have been meeting the wrong kind of women.

Try a woman who is not standing on a street corner

livinglarge in a good place , Kildare Ireland

Wed Dec 31, 2008 1:59 PM CST : Is it only me that keeps meeting alot of easy women these days or what?

hhaaaa dream on

Conrad73 Lonesome Town Zurich, Zrich Switzerland

Wed Dec 31, 2008 2:01 PM CST : Is it only me that keeps meeting alot of easy women these days or what?

Damn,I must be meeting the wrong Women then!

Conrad73 Lonesome Town Zurich, Zrich Switzerland

Wed Dec 31, 2008 2:04 PM CST : Is it only me that keeps meeting alot of easy women these days or what?

wheresthepassion: I have been pondering about this for quite some time now and it simply frustrates me how easy women are ready to give up their physical boundaries so quickly and get down to business. I wonder these days if women still believe in challenging a man and making him prove he is interested in more then just sex with them, before they take off the panties. I think of this also, if one is so easy to discuss sexual issues, share her body and etc. with a man, she barely knows, being me. Then I just can't imagine how easy the rest of the men out there have got it. Is that somethone I can respect and begin a trusting relationship with, I think not. Where is the class, has the media, movies, television and etc. changed every woman out there. Has the lack of fathers being in the household made every woman crave that male atention so much, they throw it at you. All these questions run through my mind. I just simply cannot fall in love, share my emotions and become intimate with a woman that does not make me wait. I thought women understood that when men have to work for something, whether it be a car, house or woman, they treat it with much more respect. Rather then when it is just freely given, we pretty much care less for it. I mean come on now, it's pretty much simple logic there. I have brought this up before so I must clarify. I am talking about women that men approach. I am talking about women that are in decent shape and tend to influence the lust of a mans eyes. Anyhow, just felt like throwing my feelings, thoughts and emotions out on a forum. If you want to comment, go for it, I would love to see what you have to say. Also remember, this is just a writing of my opinion, my personal life and experiences. Take it easy and stay classy!

...and then it might have to be you who needs the Make-Over.
You're probably looking in all the wrong places.

jeepers Cowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)

Wed Dec 31, 2008 2:10 PM CST : Is it only me that keeps meeting alot of easy women these days or what?

Are these women also finding you just as easy ??

druidess6308 Reverse, Pennsylvania USA

Wed Dec 31, 2008 2:29 PM CST : Is it only me that keeps meeting alot of easy women these days or what?

wheresthepassion: I have been pondering about this for quite some time now and it simply frustrates me how easy women are ready to give up their physical boundaries so quickly and get down to business. I wonder these days if women still believe in challenging a man and making him prove he is interested in more then just sex with them, before they take off the panties. I think of this also, if one is so easy to discuss sexual issues, share her body and etc. with a man, she barely knows, being me. Then I just can't imagine how easy the rest of the men out there have got it. Is that somethone I can respect and begin a trusting relationship with, I think not. Where is the class, has the media, movies, television and etc. changed every woman out there. Has the lack of fathers being in the household made every woman crave that male atention so much, they throw it at you. All these questions run through my mind. I just simply cannot fall in love, share my emotions and become intimate with a woman that does not make me wait. I thought women understood that when men have to work for something, whether it be a car, house or woman, they treat it with much more respect. Rather then when it is just freely given, we pretty much care less for it. I mean come on now, it's pretty much simple logic there. I have brought this up before so I must clarify. I am talking about women that men approach. I am talking about women that are in decent shape and tend to influence the lust of a mans eyes. Anyhow, just felt like throwing my feelings, thoughts and emotions out on a forum. If you want to comment, go for it, I would love to see what you have to say. Also remember, this is just a writing of my opinion, my personal life and experiences. Take it easy and stay classy!

I'm so glad you put women in the same class as a car and a house. See, unlike those items, women have emotions and hormones. We've been known because of them to make mistakes, or to just be able in this day and age to express and enjoy who we are...unlike a house or a car.

Usually, if I've met someone online, then I've been talking to them for some time via emails before I meet them in person, and we've shared some very personal things. Probably even teased each other with sexual banter. So, should we decide to end the first date with sex, there's nothing wrong with that.

And it goes both ways. You have the right and ability to say no, just as a woman does. Maybe you need to take some responsibility as well, and discuss this issue before meeting for that first date. Express your views and personal values on the subject. Just as protection is the responsibility of both people, so is whether or not you sleep together on the first, or an early in the relationship, date.

BrEyes Dallas, Texas USA

Wed Dec 31, 2008 2:33 PM CST : Is it only me that keeps meeting alot of easy women these days or what?

druidess6308: I'm so glad you put women in the same class as a car and a house. See, unlike those items, women have emotions and hormones. We've been known because of them to make mistakes, or to just be able in this day and age to express and enjoy who we are...unlike a house or a car.

Usually, if I've met someone online, then I've been talking to them for some time via emails before I meet them in person, and we've shared some very personal things. Probably even teased each other with sexual banter. So, should we decide to end the first date with sex, there's nothing wrong with that.

And it goes both ways. You have the right and ability to say no, just as a woman does. Maybe you need to take some responsibility as well, and discuss this issue before meeting for that first date. Express your views and personal values on the subject. Just as protection is the responsibility of both people, so is whether or not you sleep together on the first, or an early in the relationship, date.

Yeah, what she said....

FreedomLover Everett, Washington USA

Wed Dec 31, 2008 2:43 PM CST : Is it only me that keeps meeting alot of easy women these days or what?

So why do think it is ok for men to be horn dogs and not women? I feel the guy who is doing the asking is just as cheap. If he was a gentelman, he wouldn't be asking so soon, right? Doesn't an attractive man influence the lust of a woman's eye as well. We are no longer in the dark ages, ya know. P.S. I am one who does wait. I just don't like the double standards.

LACali Southern California, California USA

Wed Dec 31, 2008 3:02 PM CST : Is it only me that keeps meeting alot of easy women these days or what?

wheresthepassion: I have been pondering about this for quite some time now and it simply frustrates me how easy women are ready to give up their physical boundaries so quickly and get down to business. I wonder these days if women still believe in challenging a man and making him prove he is interested in more then just sex with them, before they take off the panties. I think of this also, if one is so easy to discuss sexual issues, share her body and etc. with a man, she barely knows, being me. Then I just can't imagine how easy the rest of the men out there have got it. Is that somethone I can respect and begin a trusting relationship with, I think not. Where is the class, has the media, movies, television and etc. changed every woman out there. Has the lack of fathers being in the household made every woman crave that male atention so much, they throw it at you. All these questions run through my mind. I just simply cannot fall in love, share my emotions and become intimate with a woman that does not make me wait. I thought women understood that when men have to work for something, whether it be a car, house or woman, they treat it with much more respect. Rather then when it is just freely given, we pretty much care less for it. I mean come on now, it's pretty much simple logic there. I have brought this up before so I must clarify. I am talking about women that men approach. I am talking about women that are in decent shape and tend to influence the lust of a mans eyes. Anyhow, just felt like throwing my feelings, thoughts and emotions out on a forum. If you want to comment, go for it, I would love to see what you have to say. Also remember, this is just a writing of my opinion, my personal life and experiences. Take it easy and stay classy!

Maybe the women are just using you too.

Women have the same needs as men and if they don't see you as a real possibility then they can just use you to meet those needs and keep looking for the right man.

No need to impress someone that doesn't impress us.

dcj22 Somewhere, Kansas USA

Wed Dec 31, 2008 3:09 PM CST : Is it only me that keeps meeting alot of easy women these days or what?

Sounds like you're doing the same thing with these women. Wouldn't that mean that you are just as easy?

druidess6308 Reverse, Pennsylvania USA

Wed Dec 31, 2008 3:49 PM CST : Is it only me that keeps meeting alot of easy women these days or what?

LACali: Maybe the women are just using you too. Women have the same needs as men and if they don't see you as a real possibility then they can just use you to meet those needs and keep looking for the right man. No need to impress someone that doesn't impress us.

Right on, LA!

Big_John Ocean Springs, Mississippi USA

Wed Dec 31, 2008 4:26 PM CST : Is it only me that keeps meeting alot of easy women these days or what?

I agree with the OP. It has been a while since I used to date, but things appear to go really fast on dates these days. Maybe it is me also.

ButterflyDreams Wichita Falls, Texas USA

Sat Jan 3, 2009 7:48 AM CST : Is it only me that keeps meeting alot of easy women these days or what?

I'd just like to say that I'm a challenge.
I refuse to settle and have been single 5 years because of it.

Anyway, I understood the general idea of the original post until it got to the part about a "woman that's in decent shape..to influence a man..". ? First of all, all people have different tastes. Some like thick, thin, older, etc. Second of all to this point, you write a post emphasizing how you can't believe woman are so focused on the physical these days, and then you discredit it all by emphasizing a physical point yourself: a woman has to be in decent shape, to attract a man's eye. For what? So they are hot enough to sleep with?

I really enjoyed reading all the previous replies above me. I wish I could give you all high fives on some very valid points.

Very much a double standard.

Tinker208 Lincoln, Nebraska USA

Sat Jan 3, 2009 11:36 AM CST : Is it only me that keeps meeting alot of easy women these days or what?

Its nice to see that a guy actually notices this. Most of the guys that I have met lately seem to think that us women are put here for their pleasure whenever THEY want it. I'm not saying every man out there, just the ones I personally have met lately. I am not "easy" and will not have sex until someone proves that they are willing to stick around for more than just that. And I especially get sick and tired of guys that already have SOs asking me "out"! I don't know if its because I work construction so they assume I am an easy target or what! I may do work that is 99% men populated but that does not mean that I don't have morales.

In response to: I have been pondering about this for quite some time now and it simply frustrates me how easy women are ready to give up their physical boundaries so quickly and get down to business. I wonder these days if women still believe in challenging a man and making him prove he is interested in more then just sex with them, before they take off the panties. I think of this also, if one is so easy to discuss sexual issues, share her body and etc. with a man, she barely knows, being me. Then I just can't imagine how easy the rest of the men out there have got it. Is that somethone I can respect and begin a trusting relationship with, I think not. Where is the class, has the media, movies, television and etc. changed every woman out there. Has the lack of fathers being in the household made every woman crave that male atention so much, they throw it at you. All these questions run through my mind. I just simply cannot fall in love, share my emotions and become intimate with a woman that does not make me wait. I thought women understood that when men have to work for something, whether it be a car, house or woman, they treat it with much more respect. Rather then when it is just freely given, we pretty much care less for it. I mean come on now, it's pretty much simple logic there. I have brought this up before so I must clarify. I am talking about women that men approach. I am talking about women that are in decent shape and tend to influence the lust of a mans eyes. Anyhow, just felt like throwing my feelings, thoughts and emotions out on a forum. If you want to comment, go for it, I would love to see what you have to say. Also remember, this is just a writing of my opinion, my personal life and experiences. Take it easy and stay classy!

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