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You are beautiful. And you are young...be patient. It will happen.

But you can take steps to help it along. Do you send flowers or e-mails to men you find attractive and interesting? Also, post more in the forums.

Best of luck to you and I will bet you will find someone this coming year!!

i do send emails and stuff to whom i find attractive but i guess they dont find me equally... i hate these feast.... all this happiness around makes me more sad and jealous.

There are so many people who feel the same way. That doesn't really help, but hang out in the forums for a while and have some fun!

Only you are in control of your happiness.

I looked at your profile. It says the man must be tall(I think) black hair and blue or green eyes. First of all that combo is fairly rare and second if you do that you are cutting off thousands and thousands of potentially wonderful men. Broaden your criteria and you will have so many men you won't know what to do with them all. Good luck.

but i also say that everyone is welcame at the end of it

Personally I think its only because you're in a foreign country. Come out to the states, and you'd have your pick of the litter.

That and if I can keep up a semi positive outlook after four years of bupkis, you should be fine.

there are people from my country here but it seems like they are not on cs for the reason they should be on.... kind of freaks

DesertRose,

You are truly a beautiful woman. There are men willing to be with someone who has a child.

Just have patience and someone will find you.

And it does take time to find someone, even if you send out a bunch of emails and flowers. Just remember that it's thier loss for not getting to know you and what beauty you can show from the inside.

I hope things do get brighter for you in '09.

We all wish that.

Blessed be.

-Robert

thank you robert....i wish that to you too!! i hope your right and that someone will came along ... i hope i wont be all old and ugly by the time....

As long as your soul stays beautiful, the ugly will never show.

I have met the most beautiful people in the world and they have been ugly inside.



As other people can say, I am here to lend an ear to hear.

Btw, I forgot my manners.

I am Robert, nice to have met you.

Young lady life has a specifically circular manner of producing the blessings that we so deserve from it.
Just like the cycle represented in the growth of plants.
Imagine a forest live and vibrant. Full of lush verdant canopies and rife with the music of life. Now imagine a fire. The land once filled with promise seems barren and desolate. In truth it is as it richest. The residue from the blaze falls to the floor and provides invaluable nutrients to the foundation which typically lies unharmed. The freedom from the shade that once protected and harboured the cool patches is a revitalizing burst that allows the tender new shoots to seek their rightful place in life. Eager fronds and tendrils reaching up to the life giving sun.
Time is of no essence really. Just ensure that you nurture your seed as it will be needed to fulfill not only your own promises but the place in which you belong. No seed knows where it will fall but it must know what it is that it will become.
An ice-cream cone never lasts as long as it should, and a test is always far too long. Time has a way of confusing us and stretching itself one way or the other. I am no Lover of time for this.
Just ensure that you find yourself so that when you are needed for the next stage in your life you will be ready and not othereise occupied with tasks that must be completed first.
Going out to the movies, not if your laundry lies heaped on the washing machine. No shower yet, and the wash is just in. More delays... Get all of your apples in line and they will provide you with time for the things you desire most and of course apples are a great attractant or lure for a healthy companion.

I have been single for some time now and I have a child also. I think that you have made very positive start to meet a partner or friend. There is nothing wrong with you. You must believe in youself. I havent met anyone but I am looking forward to making lots of new frineds in 2009. You must talk with

lovely words...its because i have accomplished what i wanted that now i feel more lonely...its because i have everthing in lane....everything settled...before i did not realise that i was alone cause i had other stuff on my mind but now..... now its all different. i feel empty!

i hope we ll both find what we are looking for in 2009

Mark, as always, beautifully put, and so wise. It applies to many of us. And you've said it better than I could, my friend...especially at this moment when instead, they were words I needed to hear as well.

please to meet you robert , its simone here!

To DesertRose: May 2009 be the year that you find what you seek. I wish it for all of us who have not.