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sorry bout spelling my meds are kickn in

There are many kind women out here who know that loving and being loved for who you are is the most important part of a relationship. Far more important than sex, or a man's ability to work...or any health problems he might have.

When I started dating my late husband, he was up front with me about having total ED. That didn't stop me from loving him for the man he was, or remaining faithful to the best guy I'd ever known, and the first man who'd ever truly loved me for me.

She's out there, and hopefully you'll find her. Best of luck to you.

i dont have ed what i have is an endurance problem

I understand that from your post. I was just using my experience as an example.

if i have anything its the oposite,lol when erect it takes awhile to not be,lol. thank you for being so positive, may i add you as a favorite so we can chat ? id like that very much please

I'll send a friend request. And you can email me any time. I don't have IM on here, so can't chat on here.

I'd love to, btw. Happy New Year.

Hey Kurt,
Don't sweat the small stuff...just be thankful that you still have your life.

I too, had a triple by-pass going on 6 years now(2003)! It's true there are problems that come with it, that you didn't have before...and you'll find out that you will never be the same as you were. You and I have to work with what we have, and make the best of it.

One of the things that comes with a heart attack, is depression. But do like I do a lot of times...just look around enough, and you'll find someone that don't have it as well as we do. A lot of people are worse off in many ways, than we are.

OK, dude...just hang in there, and think positive...you can't force any/all things to go your way...but try to lead it in that direction. Have a Happy New Year, and best of luck to you.

Hey Dru...didn't mean to ignore you(phone call)any way...Happy New Year to you and yours as well.

thank you buddy, i do suffer depression at times, but im having a hard time explaing the endurance thing to women, i just may stay celebet for awhile.

I was married to a man that had a heart condition. I knew about it from the begining of our relationship and I was worried at times but, that didn't stop me from falling in love with him and having his 2 children.

what are your plans for the evening ?

Well, hey...there are millions of women out there(online/offline), and the thing is to weed through them, and land on a good one. You just might be surprised at how many women out there that are looking for someone just like you. Seriously! OK...have a fun/safe weekend holiday!

it just seems that they dont understand how difficult it is to do the most simplistic daily task. you were married ? if i may ask what happened, sorry to be so personal

Happy New Year to you as well. And I wasn't offended. It's his thread. Happy New Year!

And very wise advice. That's what I do when I'm down...I remember that there are always those worse off than I am, and then I count all of my blessings, big and small...my life, my health that does remain, my friends, my house, my sons, etc. Every little good thing in my life. Then, I put on some uplifting music, or light candles and play my djembe. Life always starts to look better, and my energy lifts.

Kurt, if you hit the quote button instead of the reply one, then everyone knows who you're talking to...don't count on being fast enough to be right below them. Often, you're typing as someone else is, and it can get confusing. Just a helpful hint.

ok im new to this so thanks

i was repling to you when i said what happened and was letting you know what ive been through with most women

I know, that's why I said it. We help the newbies around here. It's how we all learned. You're welcome.

I'm assuming your post is back to me. Yes I had been married 2 times...but the heart attack didn't occur until 11 years after the 2 divorce(so, hey...I can't blame them for the attack )! It was my way of life that did it!

But as for as the sex performance...some advantages, and some disadvantages! Thing is...it wasn't' all the same as it was.

There are way's to fix your issue...mainly taking your time, back away in a way that you can continue the caressing, until you can regain your momentum. Like I said...with enough research, and time, and practice...you can be the "master of your domain" again, except in a better way than before...You'll see.