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That's nice to say that. But it's like giving a fish to someone who is hungry or instead teaches that person to fish; I think the best is that person to learn to fish him or her self. Because in this life there are lots of ups and downs and problems might come at anytime. There is no one to help in so many circumstances but that person him self is the only one who can best. So that person can be a self made hero…….

Best wishes and Happy New Year mastic

I was speaking from my heart and the fact that he wants to do something good, and I'm sure he did and will. Happy New Year to you too.

I appreciate that, thanks

Give me some of what your drinking, I want to get blasted too.

Sorry mastic I don't drink but cheers any way


Have a wonderful year in 2009

That last post wasn't met for you, Happy New Year again and many more.

Hi. Yes I fully agree with what you said. I too like Craig was in bad accident which shortened my military career. At first I was devasted. The doctor said I wouldn't walk but after 4 years I did. I still play with a band in the military, but my biggest reward has been as a mentor in music to kids and doing charity drives. As I said early when one door closes, another one opens.

Hi navygirl, it's my pleasure to have the honour to meet you in here. What a story, I am very glad that you overcame your difficulty and I am proud of you. This universe loves good people like you and I am sure that there are more rewards come to you in your life to keep you healthy and happy. And your saying is really true, when one door closes, another one opens. That also gave me more hope.

Happy New Year, wishing you the best

You have a wonderful smile

Thank you for the very kind words. I sent Craig an email to try to encourage him that there is so much in life to look forward too as I certainly can relate to what he is going through. He sounds like a remarkable young man and I think he is going to make quite an impact in life even if he doesn't know it now. I have had my ups and downs but consider myself already quite rewarded in life. I just wish I could do more to help the various charities as it is heart breaking to drive by the homeless shelters and see these people staying outside because there is no room. I am pushing city council to get these people a place to stay as we have temps dropping in -40 here in Canada and they just can't survive. Didn't meant to ramble on. I wish you a wonderful New year.

I know what you mean it’s really hard even to imagine that some people are staying out in cold with out a roof over their head at night. I am thinking of planning to help more charities because that also drives me to try more to make more money to be able to help more. Also I know that there are some organizations that help homeless people or at least give them some magazines to sell during the day to make the money to pay for a hustle at night but the other problem is that some of these people are also addicted that there are some other organizations to help them to get rid of their addictions. If you know any charities regard this problem please mention few of them. And thanks for wishing me a wonderful New Year and mentoring Craig, I am sure that also he finds his way thorough to become a Hero as that’s who he wants to be. With your saying about doors you’ve already mentored me some, and thanks. You are a very nice person naveygirl, please take care of your self

Bro.. if you think that serving in the USA military makes you any kind of hero..I think you are still in the coma!

Actually we have a wonderful organization called the Mustard Seed. They get the people off the streets, help with their addiction, provide them with work cothes, job skills, and help them find affordable housing. I applaud the people that run that place.

Again thanks for the kind words. You are a very nice man.

Rose

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The person who fights on the field of battle for this country and its ideals are heros to this country.

QUESTIONS!: Is the person who fires one shot less than one who fires 10,000 shots? NO!
Is a person who prepares the meals less than one that fires one shot. NO!
Is a person who prepares to give his all for this country and is never deployed for what ever reason less than one who fires one shot. NO!
Does situation make the hero. NO!
Does situation cause some seen and others not. YES!

There are people in different situations that all fight for the American way in different degrees and are all heros. Some seen and some not! Some are file clerks, some are builders, some are painters,.....etc. Then there are those who serve this country quietly and in secret....never known. But still heros fighting for the American way! There is "HERO" and there is "GLORY". A person does not need to be glorified to be hero....just fighting for the American way in any situation.

You are.....Hero....by trying to fight for America the same as those who can. There are those who have been able to prove it more in the sight of men, but none less in the heart of the man himself. Now continue the fight in whatever situation life gives you.

We thank you for all that you have done, that you were prepared to do and that you will do in the future.

The American flag is made of fabric and the fabric is seen far and wide....but even the smallest stitch holds it together and is part of it.

Dreams change, but the heart remains the same.....American hero!

The person who fights on the field of battle for this country and its ideals are heros to this country.

There are people in different situations that all fight for the American way in different degrees and are all heros.

I like what you had to say. I have people say that I am their Hero but it isn't because of me serving in the military. They think that because I mentor young cadets, do charity fund raising, and help people out on a daily basis. My response is I am just being me. I think the heros are the people that make the difference and they all don't wear a uniform.

It's very funny nowadays what a hero is. Killing the enemy and most of the time the innocents as well. Even in the movies the hero's actions are personal. Saving one person from harm or saving the world on person at a time. War is very impersonal! The fact that they call soldiers home grown hero's, is just a recruitment tool. You want to be hero? be a cop, be firefighter be a volunteer for some charities make your effort personal and touch the lives of other people in your community or entire country, but do it one at a time. Be a real hero, one that saves or accomplish the goals without killing. you need to redefine the work HERO my friend. Adapt to your new reality. Be a real HERO! not a selling tool.

If you think people join the military just to kill, then you have idea of what you are talking about. Men and women are putting thier lives on the line so people like you can verbally attack them for what they are doing. We in Canada are lucky enough not to have gone through our own 911 incidentand we join the military to try and prevent this. As for innocents dying, the Media doesn't report that many of these innocents had a weapon, or bomb, or were helping terrorists kill our soldiers. Your comments are very insulting to all those Canadians that died in Afganastan. Myself I was rebuilding homes for people, sand baggging for floods, stopping drug runners, and stopping people from bringing weapons into Haiti. That does not make me a killer; it makes me human. So the next time you have a full belly of food, & get out of your nice warm bed, think about what us killers did to give you this freedom.

There are so many ways in today world that you can do so much good, you don't have to be deployed to do that. Good luck and don't be so down on yourself. Life didn't turn out quite the way you wanted it to, but life can still be what you want it to be.