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At least she told you to your face, or told you at all, instead of just falling off the face of the earth with no explanation.

I can't answer about whether or not you'll ever find love again, but as long as you're open to it, it's got a good chance of happening again. And crying allows healing, so it's never a bad solution when you're feeling overwhelmed. Once you've healed fully, then it will be possible to open your heart again. But it takes time.

Cry. Heal. And allow your heart to open again.

What Dru said is right. Allow yourself to cry/grieve so you may heal. Only then will you be able to allow yourself to find happiness again.

Hun, you're young. Give it time. The right woman is worth waiting for.


Now, us old farts need to just grab up the next thing that comes along. We're running out of time! JK - I hope I at least brought a smile to your handsome face.

This is a good group of people, Wil. We help each other through the hard times. We'll be here for you too.


-dana

I don't mean to be blunt, I just am. sorry...but
Is your thinking always this scrambled?
If so, I would say that you need a lot more time before even thinking about a relationship, get you fixed first, then worry about adding someone else to the mix.

Had not read your profile before, just did, clears up some of the confusion.

1, is she decided to move on.. you have to do the same.
if she was actually texting someone at 120 mph then she is an idiot anyhow, don't ya think?

let it go and start over,
make up your mind to get over her and heal,
2.Make new friends, change your profile.
Gloom and doom will only run everyone off that reads your profile.
If I were you, I wouldn't even mention the accident unless you start getting close to someone, then discuss the accident in private, such as emails.

get your heart cleared out first.
after you are over her, then you can just be you again, then you have so much more to offer a perspective partner,

Since you cared about her, it is right you would miss her....that will get better with time.

If she did not care.....you are better off without her...she only loves herself.... and it is not your fault.

You will find love again....no problem!!!!

No matter how your life has changed......you now have to work with what you have and live life to the best.

There is a man who drove his motorbike under a semi. He was burned head to toe. Nubs for fingers....etc. He ran for mayor of a town and won. He crashed his plane and became wheel chair bond. He found and married the woman of his dreams (a former beauty Queen) and has kids. He is well off money wise also.
If he can do it....you can...IF...IF...you have inside you what he did. That is a great outlook on life and plans for the future and the determination to have it.

I have told many before and I will tell you. Books on goals setting, self esteem,...etc. Don't spend your money on things that just empty your mind and your wallet......Buy books to fill the mind with knowledge and apply that knowledge....it will fill your wallet and your dreams. Get "Psycho-cybernetics" by Maxwell Maltz. Whileshire Book Co. site owned by Melvin Powers. Read and learn and it will give you life.....consume knowledge and wisdom like breath itself...live it...crave it....hunger for it. You will go far.

Rillyniceguy....I'm around if needed!

In you feeling as you do....it is understandable to jumble thoughts as you write... to those of understanding.

My advice would be for you to listen to "Rillys & Ras's words of wisdom"... They would make great Agony Uncles

Yes, listen to ras & rilly, very wise and good words.

I have had a similar experience and it takes time to work through it, but you will get there in the end. You are very young, time heals all wounds, I wouldn't have believed this at your age either, but it does.

I am here too if you need me, I have a son your age.

OK... way too much nice from me for one day

If zell and heidi really cared..they would both give you a freebie to help you get over her and rebuild your confidence!!

hell.... I could use some of that myself.. come on over ladies!!

I know what you are going though.
my girl left me to be with a GIRL, some time ago.
I tell myself i dont miss her , but i do.
I did not cry for , i dout she will cry for me.
It dose not hurt much any more
Why cry for someone who dose not care for you .
You will get over her , you will find someone better
Now you are not tied to anyone , you can play with ANY girl .
Just be careful who you play with .

....COCA20....

Okay, as it's New Years day, we're on our way

Dude, 7 women to every man. Give yourself time.

Say the right things in my "Spanking" thread and your worries are over old fart ..........

If you really care so much for this woman, why are you here? Face the facts and move on. People grow apart and not always simultaneously. You wouldnt feel so bad if it were you doing the "walking away" would you. Feeling rejected is something no one likes to face, but deal with it. If we were all perfect at a relationship how many of us would be here? Everyone likes to feel loved and apreciated and in return do the same for their partner, but life is short, people grow in different directions at different paces, and people die. Thats life Stop wasting your enegy and emotions on someone who neither appreciates or loves you and find someone who will. Be grateful she was honest enough to tell you at least her version of the truth or what she perceives as a problem with your relationship. Shit man, you found her, you'll find another. Right now you sound like your trying to win the lottery without even buying a ticket. You cant force the issue to get what you want, it just has to happen. Cheer the fuck up

I swear...I could actually smell the Jersey shorline when I got to that last sentence!

You should see the waves this time of year

well said, Rilly

I'm sure you have helped him do just that.