Chuckie is in Afghanistan

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pubwrite08 District Heights, Maryland USA
I have a son named Charles in Afghanistan. I talk everyday for as long as he needs me to, sometimes we IM each other for hours, if it is what he needs it is what I give him. At midnight last night he tells me that he can not take it anymore. the blood the death, the kids that need so much that he can not give them.
He said and I am quoting him. "I just want to sit down, and shut down. Not move, not breathe, not do anything else." This stings because Chuckie is a cool kid, his sense of humor is tacky like his Momma's, and he can get through just about anything, he calls me Mommy. I raised him by myself, well I raised all five of them by myself, and I hate that I can not hold the one that is so much like me. I feel bad for him because everybody else sees a soldier, and I see "Chuckie" my baby.
I asked him could he see somebody, and he said he would. So I ask that we all pra for him, and anybody else's son over there that might be feeling like Chuckie.



livinglarge in a good place , Kildare Ireland
pubwrite08: I have a son named Charles in Afghanistan. I talk everyday for as long as he needs me to, sometimes we IM each other for hours, if it is what he needs it is what I give him. At midnight last night he tells me that he can not take it anymore. the blood the death, the kids that need so much that he can not give them.
He said and I am quoting him. "I just want to sit down, and shut down. Not move, not breathe, not do anything else." This stings because Chuckie is a cool kid, his sense of humor is tacky like his Momma's, and he can get through just about anything, he calls me Mommy. I raised him by myself, well I raised all five of them by myself, and I hate that I can not hold the one that is so much like me. I feel bad for him because everybody else sees a soldier, and I see "Chuckie" my baby.
I asked him could he see somebody, and he said he would. So I ask that we all pra for him, and anybody else's son over there that might be feeling like Chuckie.


I will pray for your son ,and hope you get to cuddle him soon.
My sister called about an hour ago, two young chaps from our hometown were killed in a car crash in Melbourne , it is very sad. My three neices are at Bondi and one of the boys ,they are qiute shook up at the moment.
I am sharing Pubwrite so you will see the positives in your situation , you still have your darling boy , be strong for him till you see him again , and you will hen
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livinglarge in a good place , Kildare Ireland
livinglarge: I will pray for your son ,and hope you get to cuddle him soon.
My sister called about an hour ago, two young chaps from our hometown were killed in a car crash in Melbourne , it is very sad. My three neices are at Bondi and one of the boys ,they are qiute shook up at the moment.
I am sharing Pubwrite so you will see the positives in your situation , you still have your darling boy , be strong for him till you see him again , and you will hen


sorry very tired today,
one of my neices knew one of the boys
pubwrite08 District Heights, Maryland USA
Thank you I just talked to him again. I told him to call me no matter wht the hour, and there were people praying for him. It is always sad when young people are taken. We need them as much as they need us.



livinglarge in a good place , Kildare Ireland
pubwrite08: Thank you I just talked to him again. I told him to call me no matter wht the hour, and there were people praying for him. It is always sad when young people are taken. We need them as much as they need us.


you are welcome ,sorry you are in such pain over your son.Keep strong, he is very lucky to be able to open up to you and have you in his corner beer
immanuelle My city, Zuid-Holland Netherlands
Dear pub. I will be keeping safe thoughts of your son in my heart. Dear LL. Very sorry to hear of your niece's loss. Take care ladies. teddybear



livinglarge in a good place , Kildare Ireland
immanuelle: Dear pub. I will be keeping safe thoughts of your son in my heart. Dear LL. Very sorry to hear of your niece's loss. Take care ladies.


Thanks Immanuelle,

you are very good hug
pubwrite08 District Heights, Maryland USA
Thank you really "are" a good person
dcj22 Somewhere, Kansas USA
Sweetie, he has my positive thoughts and prayers for him to get through this ordeal. And so do you. hug
morgan5 somewhere sunny , Canarias Spain
will keep you both in my thoughts, i hope he will come home safe to you very soon comfort teddybear
pubwrite08 District Heights, Maryland USA
You guys are so sweet, I am really Wendy
dcj22 Somewhere, Kansas USA
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BrEyes Dallas, Texas USA
Hi Wendy---sorry to hear about your son's situation. I will be praying for you and him. Take care. Send him our prayers and good wishes. hug
vinny1967 On Tour, Devon, England UK
He sounds like a very rounded young man to be able to share so I trust he will come through this.

My Thoughts are with you.

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Abram Goshen, Ohio USA
"I just want to sit down, and shut down. Not move, not breathe, not do anything else."

Myself, being a 'nam vet, know that intense feeling very well pubwrite, and it means your son is on his toes, doing what needs to be done. I will bet, if you look real hard, you will find your intensity in him, and the fact you did not, do not rest, until all your responsibilities for those you love, and protect, is completed. Do not feel bad that, "everybody else sees a soldier," because we should all view each other has soldiers in the ranks of Americans working, and fighting, together, for our family of Americans, their protections, and opportunities. We cannot all pick, and choose, how we will be called on at any given moment, but of our choices be able to confront whatever is thrown at us, and come out victorious of our choices. Then we can rest, but at all times with open eyes.

My prayers are with you, and Charles, as they have always been for every American making responsible choices for our families. teddybear
lanabyte Charleston, West Virginia USA
God bless your son. My thoughts are with him.
My friend Jesse was killed last year in Iraq. sad flower



mbcasey North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA
Prayers for Chuckie...



mbcasey North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA
lanabyte: God bless your son. My thoughts are with him.
My friend Jesse was killed last year in Iraq.


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dcj22 Somewhere, Kansas USA
Just thinking of you and Chuckie, Wendy. hug teddybear
pubwrite08 District Heights, Maryland USA
Thank you guysteddybear




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