man who can't take no for an answere!

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Yvonne66 kiruna, Norrbotten Sweden
A couple fo times now i have in a very polite way said no thank you and have refered to my profile when it comes to what i'm looking for! i have also asked the guy if he had read it, oh yes he has and he thinks we're a great match! So i say no thanks and ask him once again to read it, he probably does because he writes me back with words i don't even want to write down here. Not nice once if you wonder..doh manners please!
abbiye sofia, Sofiya-Grad Bulgaria
hes an idiot,i meet at least one per daylaughthey are very quick to insult you if they dont have their way.just block him.hug
RillyNiceGuy Southeast, Arkansas USA
I think French guys can!

He says,"Madame, You will have zee passionate sex will me...no!"


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Hugz_n_Kissez Someplace, Ontario Canada
Yvonne66: A couple fo times now i have in a very polite way said no thank you and have refered to my profile when it comes to what i'm looking for! i have also asked the guy if he had read it, oh yes he has and he thinks we're a great match! So i say no thanks and ask him once again to read it, he probably does because he writes me back with words i don't even want to write down here. Not nice once if you wonder.. manners please!



Hence the reason I don't even bother to respond anymore...my silence should say it all...it shouldn't have to be written...wave wink roll eyes hug kiss hug heart beating
Polarbutterfly Paulatuk, Northwest Territories Canada

In response to: A couple fo times now i have in a very polite way said no thank you and have refered to my profile when it comes to what i'm looking for! i have also asked the guy if he had read it, oh yes he has and he thinks we're a great match! So i say no thanks and ask him once again to read it, he probably does because he writes me back with words i don't even want to write down here. Not nice once if you wonder.. manners please!



"I know exactly what you mean.....the bloke...!!."

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princess49503 grand rapids, Michigan USA
Yep, thats why I don't bother responding to emails from men I'm not interested in.

Every single time I've responded to say I wasn't interested, they guy trys to argue his case and tell my why I'm wrong about him.

so tip for the guys:

If she reads your email and doesn't respond: leave her alone and move on.

if she does respond to say 'no thank you' or what ever: leave her alone and move on.



BarrenPneuma Golden Staircase, Ontario Canada
princess49503: Yep, thats why I don't bother responding to emails from men I'm not interested in.

Every single time I've responded to say I wasn't interested, they guy trys to argue his case and tell my why I'm wrong about him.

so tip for the guys:

If she reads your email and doesn't respond: leave her alone and move on.

if she does respond to say 'no thank you' or what ever: leave her alone and move on.


Yeah but who cares... Detroit beat Chicago and that is all that matters on this glorious day!!!hug



princess49503 grand rapids, Michigan USA
BarrenPneuma: Yeah but who cares... Detroit beat Chicago and that is all that matters on this glorious day!!!


Datsyuk rocks!!head banger
vinny1967 On Tour, Devon, England UK
princess49503: Yep, thats why I don't bother responding to emails from men I'm not interested in.

Every single time I've responded to say I wasn't interested, they guy trys to argue his case and tell my why I'm wrong about him.

so tip for the guys:

If she reads your email and doesn't respond: leave her alone and move on.

if she does respond to say 'no thank you' or what ever: leave her alone and move on.


doh I was wonderin what I was doin wrong grin

We were raised to walk up to woman, beat our chests, scream at the top of our voice and drag women into the cave by the hair.

Oh I long for the good ole days
Life was so much simpler rolling on the floor laughing



IMO - they are plonkers.........
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princess49503 grand rapids, Michigan USA
vinny1967: I was wonderin what I was doin wrong

We were raised to walk up to woman, beat our chests, scream at the top of our voice and drag women into the cave by the hair.

Oh I long for the good ole days
Life was so much simpler
IMO - they are plonkers.........



The guys who try to 'argue' their way into my heart make themselves look like crybabiescrying


laugh the chest beating and display of dominance would have a better response wink
vinny1967 On Tour, Devon, England UK
princess49503: The guys who try to 'argue' their way into my heart make themselves look like crybabies the chest beating and display of dominance would have a better response


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

God I wish we had you Ladies problems mumbling

Turning them away and discussin how ? OMG such a problem.......

Yeah I can imagine some people not takin no for an answer




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mbcasey North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA
Yvonne66: A couple fo times now i have in a very polite way said no thank you and have refered to my profile when it comes to what i'm looking for! i have also asked the guy if he had read it, oh yes he has and he thinks we're a great match! So i say no thanks and ask him once again to read it, he probably does because he writes me back with words i don't even want to write down here. Not nice once if you wonder.. manners please!


Just tell them you sell Ikea...tongue laugh
babymilo Wollongong, New South Wales Australia
princess49503: Yep, thats why I don't bother responding to emails from men I'm not interested in.

Every single time I've responded to say I wasn't interested, they guy trys to argue his case and tell my why I'm wrong about him.

so tip for the guys:

If she reads your email and doesn't respond: leave her alone and move on.

if she does respond to say 'no thank you' or what ever: leave her alone and move on.



Two wrong acts do not make it right

There is no excuse for guys being rude and vulgar after being told NO.

On other hand it is also extremely rude to not bother to respond to those who have bothered and taken the time to email or try to chat. For the majority it takes of guts to try and make contact with others. Some people like the idiot referred to at 1st post do make it hard on genuine users.

As was suggested Just block them. I would go further and report them. They have no place here. Get them kicked off.

I've been on this site a short time and have had 2 female chatters trying to get me to do 'camming'. I just politely said no but thanked them for their persistance in trying to get my credit card details. I did report one of them, as their personnal details were clearly false.

So ladies courtesy cuts two ways.


so tip for the gals

If someone has bothered to send you an e-mail: please be decent and respond nonetheless. Majority will leave you alone. Don't ignore. If the idiots persist kick em off.

cheers
jlw45 saratoga springs, Utah USA
Hugz_n_Kissez: Hence the reason I don't even bother to respond anymore...my silence should say it all...it shouldn't have to be written...
professor ....silence IS golden....uh oh
jlw45 saratoga springs, Utah USA
Yvonne66: A couple fo times now i have in a very polite way said no thank you and have refered to my profile when it comes to what i'm looking for! i have also asked the guy if he had read it, oh yes he has and he thinks we're a great match! So i say no thanks and ask him once again to read it, he probably does because he writes me back with words i don't even want to write down here. Not nice once if you wonder.. manners please!
nice profile....straight to the point...

some guys are just gooberslaugh



seamushan galway, Galway Ireland
It all a test their just playing hard to get keep at it no matter how many no s you get no means she wants you bigtimehead banger
babymilo Wollongong, New South Wales Australia
seamushan: It all a test their just playing hard to get keep at it no matter how many no s you get no means she wants you bigtime


Seamushan,

I'm shattered..

Are you now suggesting that there are women users at CS who are totally being deceptive and manipulative?. Cannot believe that people would do that. oh..That is so dishonest.

OR

Could it be however that some folk actually do not understand what the word NO means?.
babymilo Wollongong, New South Wales Australia
seamushan: It all a test their just playing hard to get keep at it no matter how many no s you get no means she wants you bigtime


Then again... those who do not respond?. are they being dishonest too?.

Or is the golden silence, or non response OK or just an excuse?
Silence = NO...??

Hmmm probably just some folk are destined to be rude, whether it is the abusive idiot who does'nt understand NO or the person who just thinks it is ok to ignore. Maybe they are both one in the same, but opposite ends.



gypsykisses Port Huron, Michigan USA
babymilo: Then again... those who do not respond?. are they being dishonest too?.

Or is the golden silence, or non response OK or just an excuse?
Silence = NO...??

Hmmm probably just some folk are destined to be rude, whether it is the abusive idiot who does'nt understand NO or the person who just thinks it is ok to ignore. Maybe they are both one in the same, but opposite ends.




drinking I see no rule stating that someone has to answer a strangers email if they don't want to. I used to, but as the op has found out, it leads to some getting extremely ignorant and out of order. This is just like real life. Rejection occurs to everyone. It's all in the way that you deal with it. If you don't get an answer and you notice that they read it, get over it and move on. Period. bouquet
Hugz_n_Kissez Someplace, Ontario Canada
gypsykisses: I see no rule stating that someone has to answer a strangers email if they don't want to. I used to, but as the op has found out, it leads to some getting extremely ignorant and out of order. This is just like real life. Rejection occurs to everyone. It's all in the way that you deal with it. If you don't get an answer and you notice that they read it, get over it and move on. Period.



Yep....wink thumbs up hug kiss




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