Big_John: So far I can't find a mate on Connecting Singles!!!
and the chances of that happening big john, are almost nil, your be better off looking on the golf course...
forums are a place for whining, knocking someone for their own opinions, trying to get the last word in, ganging up... its a personl fighting match, without being in the ring!!! its easy that way, your not involved... everyone does it..
every now and again, you might just find someone that is a "bad girl" or a "good girl thats wants to be "bad", and its got to be local, so they dont to wait for you to travel long distance..
but its fun, it brings out the real you and them, in it...
cheers.