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WhatUwish4 Jacksonville, Florida USA
mbcasey: Your turn...in a restaurant, why do ladies go to the bathroom in two's?


Talking to each other along the way helps satisfy our oral fixiation...
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virgiomonkey Auckland, Auckland New Zealand
Interesting,A situation occurred to me about 3 months ago,I was brought up by my Dutch Parents,to be a Gentleman and Have respect and to honor Ladies and on the whole to have Good Manners.I was at Titirangi Post Office to pay some bills and to do some Banking,three young Ladies,approximately in there late 20,s or early 30,s were before me,in front of the Door,so,being a Gentleman I step aside and without a word on my part,I open the Door for them,and they walk though ,only be totally verbally abused that I was a so called, Evil 'Male Chauvinistic Pig',that They could open doors by themselves....!!!!!Hence,I do not open doors anymore for Ladies,be dammed if do,and be dammed if you don't,and Ladies you wonder why Men aren't Gentlemen anymore....!!!! frustrated very mad doh Your views appreciated,thank you,oh a happy 2009 to all.peace thumbs up John Dutchie
sexielady somewhere in FL, Florida USA
mbcasey: Your turn...in a restaurant, why do ladies go to the bathroom in two's?


To get her opinion of you!professor tongue wave



aruza Arvada, Colorado USA
Wow, not only can you meet new people on CS but you can also learn a few things!
realvyguy Castleton, Vermont USA
WOMEN (not girls) will know the difference between chivalry and a "guy" being condescending. Guys tripping over their own two feet will not be attractive either way.



mbcasey North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA
sexielady: To get her opinion of you!


Oh no!

(Must remember to never double date)



mbcasey North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA
WhatUwish4: Talking to each other along the way helps satisfy our oral fixiation...


wow

I just hope it isn't a bumpy ride home...laugh
Hugz_n_Kissez Someplace, Ontario Canada
SweetKim: Out of curiousity, how far can a guy go with being polite on a day before its a turn off? Or is it ever a turn off? When I no out I want the guy to open the doors for me, pay for dinner, compliment me if I look nice and spent time to look good! Walk me to my door... Now I don't want a guy to flippin trip over his own feet in a sprint to run to me to open the door when he isn't close... But those are turn ons to me..
Girls do you like guys to be a gentlemen or rathe do things yourself?

And men do you prefer to do these things for ladies? Or had any lady tell get ticked for doing so?


I prefer manners yes...someone who is just sooooo kind hearted that these things come naturally and aren't done because they think they should be.....thumbs up



mbcasey North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA
virgiomonkey: Interesting,A situation occurred to me about 3 months ago,I was brought up by my Dutch Parents,to be a Gentleman and Have respect and to honor Ladies and on the whole to have Good Manners.I was at Titirangi Post Office to pay some bills and to do some Banking,three young Ladies,approximately in there late 20,s or early 30,s were before me,in front of the Door,so,being a Gentleman I step aside and without a word on my part,I open the Door for them,and they walk though ,only be totally verbally abused that I was a so called, Evil 'Male Chauvinistic Pig',that They could open doors by themselves....!!!!!Hence,I do not open doors anymore for Ladies,be dammed if do,and be dammed if you don't,and Ladies you wonder why Men aren't Gentlemen anymore....!!!! Your views appreciated,thank you,oh a happy 2009 to all. John Dutchie


Never let anyone change who you are.handshake



SweetKim neosho, Missouri USA
mbcasey: Your turn...in a restaurant, why do ladies go to the bathroom in two's?
to gossip! Do you like him?? Isn't he cute? He looks got in that shirt! Or... He's a jerk, can you believe he said that?!? Or maybe to get away from tho smells we're yalkin about. Btw tire check? That is hilarious!



WhatUwish4 Jacksonville, Florida USA
mbcasey: I just hope it isn't a bumpy ride home...


laugh laugh laugh
And who appointed you the lucky guy?
sexielady somewhere in FL, Florida USA
mbcasey: Oh no!

(Must remember to never double date)


Now Ken dear a proper lady always has her chaperon even if you don't know or see her! wink grin



mbcasey North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA
SweetKim: to gossip! Do you like him?? Isn't he cute? He looks got in that shirt! Or... He's a jerk, can you believe he said that?!? Or maybe to get away from tho smells we're yalkin about. Btw tire check? That is hilarious!


You go to the bathroom to get away from the smell?laugh tongue



mbcasey North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA
WhatUwish4: And who appointed you the lucky guy?


You are correct...but a guy can dream....smitten




mbcasey North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA
sexielady: Now Ken dear a proper lady always has her chaperon even if you don't know or see her!


No reason to bring BOB into this!scold

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WhatUwish4 Jacksonville, Florida USA
mbcasey: You are correct...but a guy can dream....


Awww...Now how can I send you a snippy retort if you turn nice on me?
hug



mbcasey North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA
WhatUwish4: Awww...Now how can I send you a snippy retort if you turn nice on me?


I have been picking on you too much and I decided to back off...hug

And you haven't seen Tom Diamond's thread about hanging things in the bedroom yet. It's probably 4 pages back now, but I am going to get whooped for what I said there...laugh hole



SweetKim neosho, Missouri USA
I typo so much ya'll must think i'm. Foreign! P new question.... How early on does a guy decide if he's going to try to sneak a kiss when he brings her home? Or in my case I bring them home or meet them somewhere cause they are cheap or lazy!? Idk which
Big_John Ocean Springs, Mississippi USA
SweetKim: I typo so much ya'll must think i'm. Foreign! P new question.... How early on does a guy decide if he's going to try to sneak a kiss when he brings her home? Or in my case I bring them home or meet them somewhere cause they are cheap or lazy!? Idk which


I think for me it happens at the exact moment it occurs. I truly don't think about it during the date.



mbcasey North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA
SweetKim: I typo so much ya'll must think i'm. Foreign! P new question.... How early on does a guy decide if he's going to try to sneak a kiss when he brings her home? Or in my case I bring them home or meet them somewhere cause they are cheap or lazy!? Idk which


A first date from the internet should be one where you meet....just for safety reasons.

When I get 'the look" is when I know to go for a kiss.grin




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