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I'm here for the night sweetie.

Here here!! about doors - remember the GOLDEN RULE all

Equality for all!! and all races/creeds/demigods/animals..except the unfortunate and handicapped.

U want something in return?? I think maybe just 'thanks' will suffice with me!!

Hands & Turn lesbian?? I thought one was born that way. Dont tell his Holiness (he thinks there are actually 2 genders and everything else is unnatural!).

Dangerous habit!

I know many guys, mainly Austrians, who are extremely polite and making compliments, kissing hands, open doors. But only until they get into their panties. From that moment they treat their ladies like shit!

Another point I have to mention; I think somebody here actually pointed already in that direction:

I am always trying to polite and respectful. Once I helped my gf in her coat, and she hissed at me: "I'm old enough - I can do this myself:

Since than I am a bit more careful, especially when I figure that this lady might be one those men-eating feminists!

I am a bottom person................we are still discussing tp right?

Including use of e-mail and IM.
Just make sure you polite them back in response!!

Does this mean you like your man on top?

That's just the law according to Amy Vanderbilt's Book of Etiquette... And I'm pretty darn sure men won't complain much whether you prefer the top or bottom!

I don't want someone to *kiss my butt* but just show me a nice time and to be sweet. Show me he's interested in me. Who wants to go out with someome that doesn't pay attention to them or do nice gestures? I also want to show him a nice date as well. Thanking him for opening a door for me or taking me to a nice place to eat. He needs to be reassured that's his thoughtfullness is acknowledged. I as well want to leave him with a good impression so he'll want to take me out again as well ad me wanting to go out again.

From what I have observed Kim, you will make a man very happy. I am sure you will find who you are looking for...and that guy will be very lucky indeed...

I'm just glad I learned something tonight.... Even if it is about tp!

thank you very much! You are very sweet. I hope we all find qho we are looking for! *hugs ya*

qho is code for who

Learn this. Hit the quote button so we know who you are repsonding to!!

You know I love you girl!! I'm in love with you actually and want to open the door for you and get into your panties.

I'm probably a bit over-polite, although, let's face it, most guys won't come on here saying they are impolite.

I always open doors, hold elevators, etc. Around here at least, it is a shock when someone actually acknowledges with a thank you.

I do that too...whyyyyyyyy...cause it is the only nice and polite thing to doooooooo...gosh is it that hard???? Maybe it is and I hear a Robert about some people saying thank you...but I can sayyyyyyy at least here the majority do...but the also the majority of people who will just let the door slam in your face even when they know you're right behind them..is a fairly high percentage too.....

I don't have to hit quote I was tellin whoever wanted to here! So take that! And I know you love me, hello i'm your freakin mini me! Where you been hiding tonight???

Well said SweetKim.

In this modern world we treat each other the same and with respect. We aknowledge when the other has done right thing by us. When we bother to go that extra km and be polite and considerate. Leaving a good impression both ways.

A lot of guys do get turned off by this 'requirement' to adopt this old fashioned chivalry thing, always having to always open doors, moving the chair, get the coat, always paying 1st,.

Leave that stuff in the Jane Austen era!.

Sometimes it pays to be polite. Anyone want to hear my apartment manager story?

I don't want someone to *kiss my butt* but just show me a nice time and to be sweet. Show me he's interested in me. Who wants to go out with someome that doesn't pay attention to them or do nice gestures? I also want to show him a nice date as well. Thanking him for opening a door for me or taking me to a nice place to eat. He needs to be reassured that's his thoughtfullness is acknowledged. I as well want to leave him with a good impression so he'll want to take me out again as well ad me wanting to go out again.[/quote

I have to agree with you. I always thank a man when he opens door for me, or seats me. I love a guy with manners and of course I reciprocate. Just a few months ago I was changing a tire on my car, and this man stopped to help me; eventhough I was quite capable of doing this myself. I accepted his help and thanked him. It's nice to know there are still some gentlemen out there; gives me hope.