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So, some gentleman posts in his profile that he is honest and sincere. He also states he doesn't smoke, yet you are out with him and he takes a drag of your tiperillo.....does that make him a liar, scammer, or freak? Should we blacklist him for his action???

Everybody on this site could be on that black list of yours for some infraction or another.

there are liars in RL trying to control it on the internet is impossible! I used to reply to mail and flowers even if to say no thanks, but got fed up with the abuse and questions as to why i wasn't interested.

Yes, I did the same! They could get really nasty. Just trying to be honest. Some people just aren't good with rejection though, I guess.

I understood your idea SexyAttorney, you said it for many times, I got it.
The black list was only a proposal.
You don't have any other, ok.

i do think the internet can be a dangerous place an all we can do is be very careful about what we disclose about ourselves and who we trust

In my opinion it takes a lot less time to just ignore the contact from people I do not wish to have contact with, then to compile a black list. A waste of time and energy in my opinion.

I lied and said I was a virgin once, ok twice, ffs ok three times then

There are also relationships that go sour and some women, and men, can't take the rejection so they start rumors about that certain gentleman, or woman, saying he, or she, is a player, liar, cheater, scumb-bag etc.
OP, are you going to blacklist that gentleman too, because he was no longer interested in that certain woman???

You are opening up a can of worms with your plan and I guarantee you that you will be making false accusations of some very innocent people!

I receive a lot of e mails and flowers daily. I collected this way a 6 months experience here and I saw 90% of them lie.
Forget about the black list, it is not a good idea, ok.
In fact the black list is already working. You didn't discuss with nobody here about the liars you met? I doubt this.

You wanted opinions, OK, here is mine--------bad idea!

Nope I didn't because, how can I put this.............ummm yes, I don't give a shit to be honest.

I have personally discussed liars I have met, with my close friends here on CS. Some turned out to be scammers, and have been deleted by CS.

Oh geez, OP, if you are going to start a blacklist for your own records of everyone that lies to you, in one way or another, then be prepared to have hundreds of volumns lying around. We all have had experiences with liars on internet dating sites. Most of us ignore, delete, and/or block. If vulgar then report them WITH PROOF. I certainly don't make a list of them.

I have even lied. Some gentleman asked me in a second email if I was into light bondage. I told him no! I lied! Shoot Me!

I lied and said I had a foursome once...........but it was only a threesome

I couldn't agree more, Morgan. I've seen it happen to some good friends & also to myself. You divulge too much & they think you're in love with them or that you're ready to meet. But you're still at the very beginning stages or are just trying to be friends with them. Then they get vindictive.

I want her blacklisted................NOW!

100% correct, l tried to start to write something regarding these points , and more, but some 'geezer' forgot the thread and decided to 'attack' me.

The only item l would agree that l do is that l do not continue with someone who has no photo who contacts me, l ask if they have, or have msn and if the answer is no then l cut the contact. Having had many Scammers and men who pretend they are women. This is still not a safe position to continue however as l have had a girl from Morocco with cam who 'told me' on a friday afternoon that if l rushed to Western Union now she could collect the money and be there to meet me in Algeciras off of the ferry on saturday morning..............l declined!

Then the young lad from Lisbon who actually had a tight bra making it look like he has small breasts and stuffed his dick between his legs to give the appearance of being a girl, but did not show his face................the givaway was the way he opened the contact with me and obviously got my ID from somewhere. Which is something else, how can someone get an MSN ID without knowing the person exists. My ID is not my email address therefore would be less easy.

In any case 65% of people on this site either have not logged in for so long there is little chance of meeting someone serious, click on the profiles and you will see that 'last login' was 'over a month' etc. These people should be taken off and a message sent to say that they must now make a new profile, l have mailed the site owners but nothing. Indeed with only a handful of people the site is worth nothing to anyone.

On a personal note you have had no different problems than l have had in 5 years here.