Mirodenia: yes.
Keep on speaking about the black list idea, seems they like it.
I said ok, it is not a good one, what other do you have?
None.
Miro, there are one or two I could easily name whom I believe have acted towards me in the way you described, but there is no way on earth I would make that public. Absolutely none. As I said, other that mention it to some of my very good GF's here whom I trust implicity.
But Miro, if you feel inclined to create and post a black list, then you should not let us stop you. I just personally don't think it is a good idea, not because those perpetrators may not deserve it, but because however you look at it, there is always so much subjectivity involved. It can turn into a real emotional slinging match. Personally I have limited energy reserves, and that is the last thing I want to do, that is use my energy in what to me is, a destructive thing, not to that person, but to me.
I hope you find peace in all this. I know you say you want to benefit others, but still, you seem pretty upset by it all.
Fil